Ben and Me_ From Temperance to Humility - Cameron Gunn [100]
It is not a coincidence that Franklin suggested that he began each day of his course by asking himself this question. Selflessness, though not a specific virtue, is the beginning of understanding of self (that sounds almost profound; I must have stolen it from somebody else). The more we do for others, the better we feel about ourselves; the better we feel about ourselves, the more we are prepared to do for others. So . . . here is another “big” answer that I discovered—one more universal truth—from following Franklin. When I talked to Peter Short, I asked him why people want to sacrifice, to do good for others. His reply, a quote from Nelson Henderson, expresses this last truth more eloquently than I ever could. He said, “The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit.”
Well, I don’t know if I’ve planted any trees, but I have for thirteen weeks followed one of the world’s greatest figures and felt his eye on me throughout the process. I have tried to be better and, in doing so, learned my last great truth. Once I articulated why I wanted to be better—to have a more meaningful life—the how came easily. The secret to being better is to try. I may not have succeeded, but for these thirteen weeks I tried, and maybe, for these thirteen weeks, I was just a little more stallion than sloth.
Go with Ben.
{I should have no objection to go over the same life from its beginning to the end: requesting only the advantage authors have, of correcting in a second edition the faults of the first.}
{FURTHER READING ABOUT BENJAMIN FRANKLIN}
Benjamin Franklin is one of the most extensively researched and written about figures in American history. Indeed, the volume of material can be overwhelming, as I discovered in writing this book. For anyone interested in learning more about Franklin, here are some books that I found particularly useful:
The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin
Edmund Morgan, Benjamin Franklin (New Haven and London: Yale University Press, 2002)
Walter Isaacson, Benjamin Franklin: An American Life (New York: Simon & Schuster, 2003)
Esmond Wright, Franklin of Philadelphia (Cambridge, Mass: The Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, 1986)
Page Talbott, ed., Benjamin Franklin: In Search of a Better World (New Haven and London: Yale University Press, 2005)
Willard Randall, A Little Revenge: Benjamin Franklin and His Son (Boston: Little, Brown and Company, 1984)
{NOTES}
Prologue
1 Isaacson, Walter, “Citizen Ben’s Great Virtues,” Time 162, no. 1 (July 7, 2003), www.time.com/time/2003/franklin/bffranklin.html.
2 Ibid.
3 Ibid.
4 McGee, Micki, Self-Help, Inc.: Makeover Culture in American Life (New York: Oxford University Press, 2007).
5 Salerno, Steve, Sham: How the Self-Help Movement Made America Helpless (New York: Crown, 2005).
6 Cicero, Marcus T., c. 106-43 BC.
7 Isaacson, “Citizen Ben’s Great Virtues.”
8 Dalton, Kathleen, Theodore Roosevelt: A Strenuous Life (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 2002), p. 254.
The Preparations
1 Herman, Arthur, How the Scots Invented the Modern World: The True Story of How Western Europe’s Poorest Nation Created Our World and Everything in It (New York: Crown Publishers, 2001), p. 64.
1. Temperance
1 Randall, Willard, A Little Revenge: Benjamin Franklin and His Son (Boston: Little, Brown and Company, 1984), p. 4.
2 “The Temperate Doctor,” Canadian Medical Association Journal 162, no. 12 (June 13, 2000).
3 Ibid. See also Plato, The Republic, chapter 16, 430d.
2. Silence
1 Palatnik, Lori, and Bob Burg, Gossip: Ten Pathways to Eliminate It from Your Life and Transform Your Soul (Deerfield Beach, FL: Simcha Press, 2005).