Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [0]
Title Page
Epigraph
Author's Note: On the Orgasm That Inspired This Book
Introduction
TO SUCK OR NOT TO SUCK: THAT IS THE QUESTION
WHY SPEECH THERAPY IS OLYMPIC TRAINING FOR ORAL SEX
1 You Have to Walk Before You Can (Unzip His) Fly: Preparing Yourself to Find (and Swing) Your Partner of Choice
ACCEPTING THESE REALITIES WILL MAKE YOU A BETTER LOVER
2 When Your Mind Spoils Your Head: What Wrecks Oral Sex
GETTING READY TO RUMBLE: A DATING GUIDE FOR FABULOUS ORAL LOVE
THE RECEIVING END
3 Initial Tonguework for Lingual Love
PREPARING YOUR MOUTH AND TONGUE TO MEET YOUR PARTNER OF CHOICE
GETTING TO KNOW YOUR TERRIFIC TONGUE
4 Kissing
COMING TO GRIPS WITH YOUR LAZY LIPS
ORAL ETIQUETTE
5 Oral Sex Ground Rules
NOT TONIGHT, HONEY . . .
IT AIN'T OVER TILL THE FAT LADY SINGS . . .
THE PRICK THAT PAINS . . .
AND THE PRICK THAT PLEASES . . .
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF LUBRICATION
RHYTHM NATION
LEND THAT HELPING HAND
DROP THAT 'TUDE, DUDE
YOU MUST BE CLEAN FOR SEXUAL CUISINE
GREEN MEANS GO, RED MEANS NO, AND NOTHING MEANS . . . ?
6 The Oral Sex Fitness Test
7 Basic Exercises
BASIC EXERCISES
INTERMEDIATE EXERCISES
8 Quitters Never Climax: Breathing for Oral Sex
PUT A TIGER IN YOUR TANK
THROAT AND JAW BREATHING EXERCISES
TENSING AND RELAXING
DEVELOPING A RELAXATION REFLEX
9 Serious Sexercises
10 Becoming a Fellatrix
11 Getting to Know Him Below the Belt: An Anatomy Lesson You'll Like
MASCULINE ANATOMY: LET'S HANG OUT
OTHER EROGENOUS ZONES
12 Understanding Your Man: Using His Fantasies to Your Advantage
ROLE-PLAYING WITH ORAL SEX
13 The Basic (Mind-Bending) Blow Job: A Blow-by-Blow Account
GENTLEMEN, START YOUR ENGINES . . .
THE GENITAL MASSAGE
SETTING HIS STAGE
FIND HIS HOT SPOTS
THE LITTLE TEASE
BACKSTAGE
KNOWING WHEN IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON
THE RING
GETTING DOWN TO BUSINESS
THE COTTON CANDY STRETCH
THE GRAND ENTRÉE
HOW TO BUY YOURSELF SOME TIME
WHISTLE WHILE YOU WORK
TAKE HIM TO THE EDGE . . .
. . . AND PUSH HIM OVER IT
THE MOMENT OF TRUTH
14 Advanced Techniques
SENSATIONAL SUCKING
RIMMING
ADVANCED TESTICLE SUCKING
HANDIWORK
MISCHIEVOUS MISCELLANY
THE JOYS OF TOYS
15 Oral Sex Positions: The Hot and the Twisted
THE CLASSIC POSITION
POWER POINT
THE SWING OF THINGS
MAN'S ALL-TIME FAVORITE POSITION
GOING TO CHURCH
SWORD SWALLOWER
MUTUAL LOVE-FEST
WINE ME, DINE ME, 69 ME
Conclusion
About the Authors
Other Books by Marcy Michaels with Marie DeSalle
Copyright Page
Graze my lips, and if those hills be dry,
Stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie.
—WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE,
“Venus and Adonis”
AUTHOR'S NOTE
On the Orgasm That Inspired This Book
AT SOME POINT, almost everyone asks me how I first made the connection between speech therapy and oral sex. Did it just hit me one day? Was it in a dream? Did one of my patients clue me into the “side benefits” of my therapy? The answer requires a little background information.
My history and upbringing were far from sexually liberated. I grew up thinking that a woman's place was in the home, and more in the kitchen than the bedroom. To top that off, I married my first boyfriend. If you had asked me where my G-spot was, I might have pointed somewhere near my knee. “Naïve” doesn't begin to convey how oblivious I was to the various parts of my body and their ability to generate sensual pleasure. The ever blossoming sexual revolution that swept across the nation barely touched me, incubated as I was in a thankless marriage on the Upper East Side of Manhattan with no career of my own, and not a single sex toy to my name. Inexplicably (I thought) unhappy, I finally went to see a psychiatrist. As I sat in his nondescript office, he concluded that my problems stemmed from a lack of sexual experience. I had been with only one person, he reasoned, how could I know what I wanted? Taken aback by his prescription—“have sex with new partners as soon as possible”—I went out in search of a less wanton opinion.
Sexual liberation must have been going around that year, because psychiatrists numbers two, three,