Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [40]
THE GRAND ENTRÉE
This is getting to the part of the blow job that always gets close-ups in porno films, and for a good reason: it feels fabulous. With your tongue angled on the frenulum, take as much of his cock into your mouth as you possibly can, with your hand(s) firmly encircled around his base to compensate for whatever doesn't fit. If you bend your neck so that there is a straight line from his cock down your throat, you should be able to take in more than you thought.
Hold him deep within your mouth for a moment, and simply feel his strong cock inside your mouth, knowing that you are in no danger of losing your breath. If you learn to feel comfortable with it, this sensation can become fantastically erotic, and may eventually excite you as much as intercourse.
At this point, you can slide your lips to encircle the glans and flick your tongue against the frenulum. Your man will be getting restless, wanting more complete penetration, but don't let him run the show. He may think he wants it all right now, but then it would last only a few minutes and his orgasm would be below a five on a scale of one to ten. If you hold him at bay through a few more key moves, that baby will reach a ten out of ten every time.
HOW TO BUY YOURSELF SOME TIME
If your partner is already telling you (verbally or otherwise) that he feels the urge to ejaculate, grasp his penis and press your thumbs against it just beneath the glans. Maintain firm pressure for a few seconds. If this feels too clinical, you can cover your teeth with your lips, and use them to create the same effect.
WHISTLE WHILE YOU WORK
After you have taken him fully into your mouth and have started moving up and down the length of his shaft, make sure you use your tongue to lick all over the glans and frenulum while you're moving. Use the malleability of his cock against your warm, pointed tongue to experiment with certain focus areas (ideally the frenulum and corona) while you suck. You can rest the head of the penis on the roof of your mouth or in your cheek while you use your tongue to create more intense, precise sensations amid the general ones created by rhythmic sucking.
Those Pushy Hands
Your man may, at some point, press his hands on your head in an attempt to drive himself more fully into your mouth. This is an instinctual response—it's the same impulse that drives him to penetrate you more deeply at the moment of orgasm. Don't be offended by this gesture, but if it makes you uncomfortable, simply use your hands to gently nudge his away.
TAKE HIM TO THE EDGE . . .
Moving as fast as he can handle it, take him fully into your mouth (with the blade of your tongue pressed fully forward to maximize frenulum contact) and slide up and down his cock as rapidly as you can—without having him orgasm. If he comes close, slow down or even stop for a moment. Then, get back to it. Again, if you can't fit all of him in your mouth, use your hands to complete the sensation of deeper penetration. Just remember to keep your hands in time with your mouth.
Ring Position
. . . AND PUSH HIM OVER IT
When he gets close to ejaculating, keep doing whatever got him to that point. Most men have orgasms from the rhythm of sucking on the head combined with the rhythm of the hand on the shaft and base of the penis. However, all men are different, and if another move has brought him to the cusp of climax, you can use that move just as easily to bring things to a head. If you have trouble identifying when he's going to climax, watch for the thrusting of the hips, moaning, the swelling of the glans, the clenching of the fists, and right before the climax you'll be able to feel what's coming in your right hand. For most men, a drop or two of fluid of extra precum will appear in the meatus immediately prior to takeoff. Of course, vocalizations (“Oh god, I'm gonna come”) and mattress-slapping are pretty clear indicators.
Good Things Come to Those Who Wait
To get him to climax with more intensity, maintain positioning and