David Crockett_ The Lion of the West - Michael Wallis [66]
Another possibility for Polly’s death was a mysterious torment known as milk sickness. Also called “sick stomach,” “puking illness,” and “the slows,” milk sickness followed frontier migration patterns and for a time was rampant in Tennessee.7 It was only many years later, through the advancement of modern medicine, that it was determined that milk sickness was a vegetable poisoning caused by tremetol, an alcohol found in the white snakeroot plant.8 Grazing cattle or deer feeding in the woods ate the plant, and humans acquired the disease by drinking the milk or eating the flesh of affected animals. In a matter of days the victims showed symptoms—abdominal pain, vomiting, extreme constipation, and fatigue. Soon those stricken fell into a stupor, quickly followed by coma and death.
Polly’s death devastated Crockett. He had seen death up close many times during his service in the recent war, but he could not have been prepared to witness the passing of the woman he so dearly loved. “I met with the hardest trial which ever falls to the lot of man,” he later wrote of that sad time. “Death, that cruel leveler of all distinctions…entered my humble cottage, and tore from my children an affectionate good mother, and from me a tender and loving wife.”9
Crockett, never a particularly religious person, did, on occasion, make reference to a higher power. Polly’s death was one of those times. “It was the doing of the Almighty, whose ways are always right, though we sometimes think they fall heavily on us; and as painful as it is even yet the remembrance of her sufferings, and the loss sustained by my little children and myself, yet I have no wish to lift up the voice of complaint.”10
Polly’s corpse was washed and dressed in the best frock she had. David fashioned a coffin, and he dug a grave on a hillside near their homestead at Kentuck. He piled some fieldstones to mark the place. For about 140 years only the remnants of that stone cairn indicated the site of Polly’s grave. In 1956, in the wake of the revival of interest in all things Davy Crockett caused by the Walt Disney television shows, the Tennessee Historical Commission, with public donations, erected a granite monument with the inscription:
Polly Finlay [sic] Crockett
Born 1788 in Hamblen County
Married to
David Crockett
Aug. 12, 1806
Mother of
John Wesley Crockett—1807
William Crockett—1809
Margaret Finley Crockett—1812
Died 1815
Almost twenty-nine years old and trying to scratch out a living on a badly neglected farm, Crockett found himself alone with three small children, John Wesley, seven; William, six; and Polly, going on three. It was far from an enviable position, or, as Crockett put it, “my situation was the worst in the world.” He turned to his brother, John, the younger brother David had met near the end of the war when he was on his way home. John had married the former Sally Thomas in Jefferson County in 1812, and by the time Polly died they had moved to Franklin County.11 It is likely that Sally helped nurse and tend to Polly in her final days.
“I couldn’t bear the thought of scattering my children,” wrote Crockett, “and I got my youngest brother, who was also married, and his family to live with me. They took good care of my children as they well could, but yet it wasn’t like the care of a mother.