Elinor Wyllys-1 [41]
the respect invariably paid by the young to the old, not only among the women, but the men, too."
"Yes," observed Miss Agnes; "I remember to have heard the same remark from Madame de Bessieres; she observed, that after having been in many different countries, she could justly claim for her own, that in no other was so much deference paid to age as in France."
"That agrees precisely with Louisa's opinion. She says it is a striking feature in French society, and appears thoroughly part of their character--not at all assumed for appearance sake."
"It is a duty too little remembered in this country. It seems to be only in our very best families that the subject is properly attended to," said Miss Agnes.
"Louisa likes the manners of the men for the same reason; she says that in society they are always respectful and obliging, whatever other agreeable or disagreeable qualities they may have. She remarked, that she had never met with a rude Frenchman in society; but she had, repeatedly, met with rude Englishmen, in very good company."
"What fault, pray, did Louisa find with the Englishmen you met, Jane?" asked Miss Agnes.
"There is a certain set, who say and do rude things."
"I should not have thought that;" said Miss Wyllys.
"Oh, they have a way of making themselves disagreeable; now, a Frenchman never tries to be disagreeable."
"One would think no one would try that," said Elinor.
"The English do, though, I assure you; at least a certain set. I don't believe any other people do. I remember one evening, Harry was very angry with a certain Mr. Ellery, son of Lord Greystone, who used to come to our house quite often last spring. Do you remember him, Harry?" she added, as Hazlehurst again approached the table covered with French knicknacks {sic}, where the girls were sitting.
"Whom were you talking about?" he asked.
"Mr. Ellery;--do you remember his manner?"
"Ellery?--To be sure I do!--Insufferable coxcomb!"
"Pray, what was his great offence?" asked Elinor, laughing.
Harry coloured violently. "Oh, it was his intolerable English manner. I have known him stretch himself out nearly full length on a sofa, on which Jane or Louisa was sitting, and stare at them, with the most sickening expression, for half an hour at a time."
"Half an hour, Harry! how can you talk so? Half a minute, you mean."
"Well, until he drove you away, at any rate. I was often surprised that you could endure it as long as you did. But happily, Louisa cooled him off after a while; though I had a strong inclination to undertake the job myself."
"It was much better as it was; it was Louisa's place to do it," observed Miss Agnes.
"But I thought you liked the English," said Elinor, with some surprise. "You were speaking very highly of several of your English friends, last night."
"I do like the better sort very much. They are fine, manly fellows, as ever breathed."
"What people did you like best?" asked Miss Agnes.
"A man who does not cherish prejudice, must naturally like the best qualities and the best individuals of all nations."
"But have you no preference?"
"There cannot be a doubt, that society is more agreeable in France, in Paris, than elsewhere."
"Are not the French too artificial?"
"I honestly do not think them more so than the English. English simplicity often has a very artificial twist; with the French it is just the reverse; art becomes a second-nature, with them."
"We hear the French accused of selfishness--"
"I think you would find both French and English more selfish than we are. But they have different ways of showing it. The Englishman is exclusive, and reserved; the Frenchman egotistical. Reserve may seem dignified; but it often covers a great deal of cold self-love; while French egotism--not EGOISME--is often mingled with much naivete and bonhommie {sic}. Both nations, however, are more selfish than the Italians, or Germans, I should say."
"Still, you seem to like the French the best of the two."
"Well, the French generally treat Americans more civilly than
"Yes," observed Miss Agnes; "I remember to have heard the same remark from Madame de Bessieres; she observed, that after having been in many different countries, she could justly claim for her own, that in no other was so much deference paid to age as in France."
"That agrees precisely with Louisa's opinion. She says it is a striking feature in French society, and appears thoroughly part of their character--not at all assumed for appearance sake."
"It is a duty too little remembered in this country. It seems to be only in our very best families that the subject is properly attended to," said Miss Agnes.
"Louisa likes the manners of the men for the same reason; she says that in society they are always respectful and obliging, whatever other agreeable or disagreeable qualities they may have. She remarked, that she had never met with a rude Frenchman in society; but she had, repeatedly, met with rude Englishmen, in very good company."
"What fault, pray, did Louisa find with the Englishmen you met, Jane?" asked Miss Agnes.
"There is a certain set, who say and do rude things."
"I should not have thought that;" said Miss Wyllys.
"Oh, they have a way of making themselves disagreeable; now, a Frenchman never tries to be disagreeable."
"One would think no one would try that," said Elinor.
"The English do, though, I assure you; at least a certain set. I don't believe any other people do. I remember one evening, Harry was very angry with a certain Mr. Ellery, son of Lord Greystone, who used to come to our house quite often last spring. Do you remember him, Harry?" she added, as Hazlehurst again approached the table covered with French knicknacks {sic}, where the girls were sitting.
"Whom were you talking about?" he asked.
"Mr. Ellery;--do you remember his manner?"
"Ellery?--To be sure I do!--Insufferable coxcomb!"
"Pray, what was his great offence?" asked Elinor, laughing.
Harry coloured violently. "Oh, it was his intolerable English manner. I have known him stretch himself out nearly full length on a sofa, on which Jane or Louisa was sitting, and stare at them, with the most sickening expression, for half an hour at a time."
"Half an hour, Harry! how can you talk so? Half a minute, you mean."
"Well, until he drove you away, at any rate. I was often surprised that you could endure it as long as you did. But happily, Louisa cooled him off after a while; though I had a strong inclination to undertake the job myself."
"It was much better as it was; it was Louisa's place to do it," observed Miss Agnes.
"But I thought you liked the English," said Elinor, with some surprise. "You were speaking very highly of several of your English friends, last night."
"I do like the better sort very much. They are fine, manly fellows, as ever breathed."
"What people did you like best?" asked Miss Agnes.
"A man who does not cherish prejudice, must naturally like the best qualities and the best individuals of all nations."
"But have you no preference?"
"There cannot be a doubt, that society is more agreeable in France, in Paris, than elsewhere."
"Are not the French too artificial?"
"I honestly do not think them more so than the English. English simplicity often has a very artificial twist; with the French it is just the reverse; art becomes a second-nature, with them."
"We hear the French accused of selfishness--"
"I think you would find both French and English more selfish than we are. But they have different ways of showing it. The Englishman is exclusive, and reserved; the Frenchman egotistical. Reserve may seem dignified; but it often covers a great deal of cold self-love; while French egotism--not EGOISME--is often mingled with much naivete and bonhommie {sic}. Both nations, however, are more selfish than the Italians, or Germans, I should say."
"Still, you seem to like the French the best of the two."
"Well, the French generally treat Americans more civilly than