and on the other hand you were a little clown. A sort of child. One could be a hundred percent certain that if there was a single sliver of glass in the valley, you would tread on it with your bare foot; that if there was just one loose stone in the whole of Greece, it would fall on your head; that if there was a single wasp in the Balkans, it would sting you. When you played your pipe outside some peasant's hut or at the mouth of a cave, there was sometimes a feeling that your body was not a body but a thought. And vice versa: every time you talked to us at night about thoughts, we felt we could almost touch them. All three of us loved you, but instead of getting jealous, with each day that passed we loved each other more. It was something miraculous. Liat slept with you at night on behalf of all three of us, as it were: through Liat you were sleeping with me and with Ilia too. I can't explain it and I don't need an explanation. You could have had any or all of us. But the moment you made your choice, even though the winner turned out to be me, the spell was broken. When you invited us to Jerusalem to meet your father, the magic was not there anymore. Then, when the preparations for the wedding began, you became tired, absent-minded. Once, you forgot me at the bank. Once, you called me Ilia. When you signed that lunatic contract with your father, in the presence of the notary, you suddenly said: 'Goethe ought to be here to see the Devil selling his soul for a mess of pottage.' Your father laughed and I fought back my tears. Your father and I took care of all the arrangements, and you grumbled that your life was foundering in candlesticks and frying pans. Once you lost your temper and shouted at me that you couldn't stand a bedroom without curtains: even in a brothel there were curtains. You stamped your foot like a spoiled brat. Not that I cared: I had no objection to curtains. But that moment was the end of Greece. Your pettiness had begun. One time you made a scene on account of my wasting your father's money, another time on account of your father's money not arriving on time, and several times on account of my overusing 'on account of.' You corrected my grammar every other sentence.
"You're not easy to live with. Whenever I pluck my eyebrows or wax my legs, you stare as though you've found a spider in your salad, but if I point out that your socks smell, you start moaning that I've stopped loving you. Every evening you grumble, whose turn is it to take the trash out and who washed the dishes yesterday, and whether there were more dirty dishes yesterday or today. And then you ask why it is that the only thing we ever talk about in this house is the washing up and the trash. I know, Effy, that these are petty things. We could work on them. We could give up, or get used to them. You don't unpick a family on account of smelly socks. I don't even get worked up anymore over your regular wisecracks about aerodynamics and jet engines, which so far as you're concerned have to do only with war and killing. As though your wife works for a syndicate of murderers. I've managed to get used to your poor jokes. And your grumbling all day long. And your dirty handkerchiefs on the dinner table. And your leaving the door of the refrigerator open. And your endless theories about who really killed President Kennedy and why. You've developed verbal diarrhea, Effy. You've even taken to arguing with the radio, correcting the newscasters' grammar.
"If you ask me exactly when my separation from you began, at what moment in time, or what you did wrong to me, I can't give you an answer. The answer is: I don't know. What I do know is that in Greece you were alive and here in Jerusalem you're not. You merely exist, and you do even that as if existence itself is a bother. You're an infantile thirty-year-old man. Almost a replica of your father, but without his Old World charm, his generosity, his gallantry, and for the time being the goatee. Even in bed, you've begun to replace love with submissiveness. You've become a bit of a flatterer. But only