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in families
helplessness with
through self-mutilation
sexuality and
Self-esteem
after abuse
childhood
with criticism
identity and
impulsivity and
in relationships
Self-medication
Self-mutilation
after abuse
self-destructiveness through
as self-medication
Sensitivity
Separation
as abandonment
anxiety
in childhood
Separation-individuation phase
Serenity Prayer
Seroquel
Serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs)
Serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SRIs)
SET-UP system, for communication. See also individual segments of SET-UP
case studies of
defined
uses of
Sexuality See also Promiscuity; Relationships
control with
in culture
development of
identity with
online
rejection of
self-destruction and
sexual abuse
sexual orientation
with therapist
Sexually transmitted infections
SFT. See Schema-Focused Therapy
Shingling
Sinequan
Skills training
SNRIs. See Serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors
Social media
Social networking
Social rapprochement
Social smiling
Socioeconomics
Solitude
Somatization Disorder
Sometimes I Act Crazy: Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (Kreisman and Straus)
Soviet Union
Splitting
in childhood
constancy and
with idealization
in TFP
Split treatment
SRIs. See Serotonin reuptake inhibitors
Staff members
STAIRWAYS
Standardization, of treatment
State disorders
Stelazine
STEPPS. See Systems Training for Emotional Predictability and Problem-Solving
Stern, Adolph
Stranger anxiety
Straus, H.
Structure
of families
in hospitalization
job
Substance abuse See also Alcoholism
as avoidance
as self-medication
Success
Suicide
in adolescents
after divorce
as avoidance
in childhood
“cluster suicides,”
as cry for help
depression and
rates of
response to
as strategy
Supportive psychotherapy
Support segment, of SET-UP system
with anger
in case studies
with contradictions
with dependency
with emptiness
with impulsivity
with negativity
with object constancy
with victimhood
Suppression
Surmontil
Sydenham, Thomas
Symbiosis
Symbiotic phase
Systems Training for Emotional Predictability and Problem-Solving (STEPPS)
Tattoos
TCAs. See Tricyclic antidepressants
Teasing
Tegretol
Telephone coaching
Temperament
TFP. See Transference-Focused Psychotherapy
Thematic Apperception Test (TAT)
Therapeutic alliance
Therapist
acceptance by
choice of
control by
countertransference of
dependency on
family alliance by
fears of
object constancy with
patient relationship with
personality of
role of
second opinion
sexuality with
in SFT
trust in
Therapy. See Psychotherapy
Thinking
distorted
magical
Thorazine
Through the Looking Glass (Carroll)
Tillich, Paul
Time
Time magazine
Tofranil
Tolstoy, Leo
Topamax
Touching
“Tough Love,”
Trait disorders
Trance state
Transference See also Countertransference
in exploratory psychotherapy
in supportive psychotherapy
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP)
Transitional objects
Trauma. See also Abuse
brain
in childhood
among war veterans
Tribes
Tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs)
Trilafon
Trileptal
Trust
in therapist
Truth segment, of SET-UP system
with anger
in case studies
consistency in
with contradictions
with dependency
with emptiness
with impulsivity
with negativity
with object constancy
with victimhood
Twelve-step programs
Twenge, Jean M.
Twin studies
Unavailability
Understanding
Unpredictability
of abuse
of anger
of impulsivity
over time
Updike, John
Valium
Van Gogh, Vincent
Verbalization
Victimization
Violence
domestic violence
Vivactil
Voltaire
Vonnegut, Kurt
War veterans
Weight
Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? (Albee)
Wolfe, Tom
Women
BPD in
eating disorders for
omega-3 fatty acid for
roles of
working
World War II vets
Worthlessness
Xanax
Young, Jeffrey
Zoloft
Zonegran
Zyprexa
ABOUT THE AUTHORS
Jerold J. Kreisman, MD, graduated from Cornell University Medical College in New York City. He is a Distinguished Life Fellow of the American