It Chooses You - Miranda July [37]
Miranda:
How was it working with Hamish?
Joe:
Hamish was real congenial – I got along with him from the time he got here to the time he left. I was kind of surprised, you know, a big star like that coming in for a little thing like this. But I figure maybe this is going to be a big hit, you know. Going to win an Academy Award.
Miranda:
When was the last time you went to the movies?
Joe:
We don’t go to the shows very often, since prices started going up, you know. The last time I went to a movie was in October 1969. It was an X-rated movie, when they first started coming out in the late ’60s. It was at an outdoor theater – I don’t remember the name of it offhand. But on all the streets around, all the cars were parked with hundreds of kids standing on the roof watching the movie. You know, getting to see it free. Learning something new like they’d never done it before.
I finished the movie in Germany and flew home the day before Thanksgiving. The day after Thanksgiving I called Joe. His wife Carolyn answered and said Joe had died two days earlier.
I was so sorry, and I kept saying that, and though we hardly knew each other, we kept laughing and crying. I had thought of her as shadowy or slight, but she wasn’t at all. Carolyn was open and ardent, with a gravely voice. We made jokes about Joe, and in laughing we forgot for an instant and then remembered and cried again. And all the while I was trying to get off the phone because it seemed so presumptuous to talk to her right now. Who was I? Just some person who’d answered her husband’s ad in the PennySaver. But she wanted to tell me about his last day. “He was in bed, and I kissed him, and, you know, diddled him a little, and then I went out of the room for a moment, and when I came back he was gone.” I made sympathetic noises, but I was thinking, Diddled? Was Joe masturbated before he died? I thought about the dirty cards and it seemed possible. Carolyn described some “wonderful Jewish people from the Skirball” who came to wash his body and take care of everything. She wept and said that this wasn’t the plan; she was supposed to die first.
Brigitte and I visited her a couple weeks later. It was strange to be in the house without Joe, very quiet. And of course Carolyn wasn’t in her bedroom as usual. “Do you want to see him? He’s right over there,” she said, pointing behind me. I smiled with uncomprehending horror and turned around very slowly. “In the paint can. Because all he did was paint. And he never stood still. We put him in the can so he’s here, where I can see him. He’s not out somewhere in some… grave. And I told my son, ‘When I go, I want to be put in the can with Dad.’ He said, ‘Are you sure?’ And I said, ‘Yes, I’m sure! Why not? And in the end, if that can isn’t big enough, get a bigger one.’”
Carolyn and I walked around the house, looking at all their old things and talking. I imagined living alone in our house after my husband’s theoretical death, and it seemed intolerably sad. I would have to move back into the office where I’d tried to write the script, the little cave. I would pick up where I had left off before I met him, when I was thirty. I would finally cook the great northern beans into a soup, and I would sit and eat that soup, alone, and then I would go to sleep, as if my entire life with him had been a single long day.
Brigitte was taking Carolyn’s picture and telling her she seemed like a happy person. Carolyn agreed that she was, and then added, “You know, to be a sorry person, that’s not nice. Like Dorothy always says. That’s my girlfriend. I told you about her, right? We’ve been friends for seventy-three years.”
This number startled me out of my sad tale. “So you’ve known her longer than Joe, then?”
“Oh yeah,” she said. “Because I met her when I was seven.”
I touched the glass jar containing the tiny bride and groom from the top of Joe and Carolyn’s wedding cake. Dorothy