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Something to do with my mother, I think. She was always going into drapery stores looking for curtains. And I had no say in it. I’d just be parked on a chair or bench or shelf or something, and I’d watch Mum. She’s got what she wanted and they’re wrapping it up, and then, oh no! She suddenly turns round and sees something else she wants, pushing the man to the limit. At the cash-and-carry the money went through those tubes in a little canister. I used to sit there watching for hours while my mother decided what she couldn’t afford to buy. But what can you say about the first woman in your life? She was Mum. She sorted me out. She fed me. She was forever slicking my hair and straightening my clothes, in public. Humiliation. But it’s Mum. I didn’t realize until later that she was also my mate. She could make me laugh. There was music all the time, and I do miss her so.

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How my mum and dad got together is a miracle—something so random, the random of opposites, in their backgrounds and personalities. Bert’s family were stern, rigid socialists. His father, my grandfather Ernest G. Richards, known locally as Uncle Ernie, was not just a Labour Party stalwart. Ernie was up in arms for the working man, and when he started there was no Socialist movement, there was no Labour Party. Ernie and my grandmother Eliza were married in 1902, at the very beginning of the party—they had two MPs in 1900. And he won that part of London for Keir Hardie, the party’s founder. He would hold that fort for Keir come what may, day in, day out, canvassing and recruiting after the First World War. Walthamstow was fertile Labour territory then. It had taken in a big working-class exodus from the East End of London and a new rail commuter population—the political front line. Ernie was staunch in the real meaning of that word. No backing down, no retreat. Walthamstow became a Labour stronghold, a safe enough seat for Clement Attlee, the postwar Labour prime minister, who’d put Churchill out in 1945 and who was the MP for Walthamstow in the 1950s. He sent a message when Ernie died, calling him “the salt of the earth.” And they sang “The Red Flag” at his funeral, a song they have only just stopped singing at the Labour Party conferences. I’d never taken in the touchiness of the lyrics.

Then raise the scarlet standard high,

Within its shade we’ll live and die,

Though cowards flinch and traitors sneer,

We’ll keep the red flag flying here.

And Ernie’s job? He was a gardener, and he worked for the same food-production firm for thirty-five years. But Eliza, my grandmother, was, if anything, saltier—she was elected a councillor before Ernie, and in 1941 she became the mayor of Walthamstow. Like Ernie she had risen through the political hierarchy. Her origins were Bermondsey working class, and she more or less invented child welfare for Walthamstow—a real reformer. She must have been a piece of work—she became chairman of the housing committee in a borough that had one of the biggest programs of council house expansion in the country. Doris always complained that Eliza was so upright she wouldn’t let her and Bert have a council house when they were first married—wouldn’t push them up the list. “I can’t give you a house. You’re my daughter-in-law.” Not just strict but rigid. So it’s always intrigued me: the unlikelihood of somebody from that family getting together with this other lot of libertines.

Doris and her six sisters—I come from a matriarchy on both sides of my family—grew up in two bedrooms, one for them and another for my grandparents Gus and Emma, in Islington. That’s tight accommodation. One front room that was only used on special days and a kitchen and parlor in the back. That whole family in those rooms and that small kitchen; another family living upstairs.

My grandfather Gus—God bless him—I owe so much of my love of music to him. I write him notes frequently and pin them up. “Thanks, Granddad.” Theodore Augustus Dupree, the patriarch of this family, surrounded by women, lived near Seven Sisters Road, with seven daughters, at 13 Crossley