Life Is Meals_ A Food Lover's Book of Days - James Salter [1]
That had been noted in the dinner book. Dinner when someone, in need of a little fresh air, went out and was discovered an hour later, sleeping on the woodpile. The night a wild woman threw the roast beef onto the floor, pronouncing it inedible. There were also great successes, but in any case, we were always writing things down, not just things that happened but also from books we were reading, things of interest, bits of history, opinions, occurrences, odd facts. At breakfast—tea and oranges for a period, as in Leonard Cohen’s beautiful song—we read aloud to one another and often leafed through cookbooks, deciding what to make for a party or simply at the end of the day. Life never felt richer.
Could any of this be put down in words and, if so, in what form? We began to imagine something for the kitchen, or even the bedside table, a book that could be opened at random or read day by day, like a diary or collection of letters, intimate, perhaps ending up with coffee stains or underlinings on certain pages.
In 1999 we mentioned the idea of a book to Nicholas Callaway, a young publisher and friend with whom we had sometimes dined. He liked the description and, coincidentally had even been gathering guidebooks and travel books, most of them rare, that for him had a similar appeal.
For us, over the years, cooking had evolved, and though it was still done together, it was more on the lines of, you do the salad, I’ll do the tart. We wrote this book the same way, not side by side but with an agreed idea of what it would be, and then both editing what we each had done. Nicholas Callaway was not quite as young by the time it was finished. There was research, travel, much more to writing it than we had anticipated.
We put the book together not to be definitive but rather to appeal to those for whom eating is something more than a mere necessity. It’s not meant to replace favorite cookbooks but instead, in a way, to complement them, to give them further context and, in the course of doing it, to give a year, perhaps more, of pleasure. If there are any inaccuracies, feel free to amend them in your own hand on the page. If there should be improvements or changes in recipes, do the same. We hope the book will be used as well as read. Life is many things, and among the best of them, it is meals.
MEALS ARE EVERYTHING · EIFFEL TOWER
DINNER WITH LORD BYRON · COFFEE
TWELFTH NIGHT · SALT
RUTH CLEVELAND · IMPORTANCE OF MEALS
CREAMED CHIPPED BEEF · TALLEYRAND · PINEAPPLE
WOMEN AT TABLE · FORKS · CORDON BLEU
GIVING A DINNER PARTY I
GIVING A DINNER PARTY II
GIVING A DINNER PARTY III
GIVING A DINNER PARTY IV
GIVING A DINNER PARTY V
GIVING A DINNER PARTY VI
JORIE GRAHAM ON LOVE · NEVER TOGETHER
GRAND DICTIONNAIRE DE CUISINE · AL DENTE
APHRODISIACS · JASON EPSTEIN’S KITCHEN
COOKBOOKS · DE GONCOURT
SPAGHETTI ALLA CARBONARA
WINE · WHAT WITH WHAT
MEALS ARE EVERYTHING
The meal is the essential act of life. It is the habitual ceremony, the long record of marriage, the school for behavior, the prelude to love. Among all peoples and in all times, every significant event in life—be it wedding, triumph, or birth—is marked by a meal or the sharing of food or drink. The meal is the emblem of civilization. What would one know of life as it should be lived or nights as they should be spent apart from meals?
EIFFEL TOWER
The Eiffel Tower was intended to stand for only twenty years