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5. What group or class will you be involved in to serve and grow?

6. How will you regularly teach your children about Jesus from the Bible?

7. How can you be vitally connected relationally in community with other people in the church, including older people you learn from, peers you walk with, and younger people you are mentoring?

8. What will evangelism and mission look like to your neighbors and community?

9. What will your spouse and children think about Jesus because of you?

10. Who in your spheres of family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors will you have shared the gospel with, seeking their salvation?

11. Husbands, how will you “wash her in the Word”?

Health

1. How much will you weigh?

2. How much will you exercise weekly?

3. What will have changed about your appearance?

4. How many hours of sleep will you average a night?

5. How many times a week will you nap?

6. On which day will you sabbath?

7. What will your diet be?

8. Other?

Employment

1. What will your job be?

2. How will your work be an act of worship unto God?

3. What can you do to become the best employee possible?

4. How will you need to guard your job from consuming your life and overtaking your other higher priorities?

Financial

1. What is your job? Will the wife be working?

2. Where do you work?

3. How much money do you make?

4. How is your money spent?

5. How is your money saved?

6. How is your money invested?

7. How is your money tithed?

8. What is your insurance, medical, and dental package?

9. Other?

Marriage

1. How often do you pray together?

2. When is your date night?

3. How do you take better care of each other?

4. Why has your love grown?

5. How has your home become a place for unplanned connecting?

6. What brings you together?

7. Other?

Sex

1. What have you and your spouse experimented with?

2. How often are you intimate?

3. What things are different?

4. How have you and your spouse changed physically and sexually?

5. What is different about your bedroom?

6. Other?

Family

1. How many children will you have?

2. How old will your children be?

3. How will they be educated at that time?

4. What special attention will each child need regarding his or her maturation up to that day?

5. Which family and friends are you closest with as a family?

6. What activities will you allow your children to participate in, and how will you manage all the time required for them?

7. Who will be the primary caregiver of your child(ren)?

8. Other?

Housing and Living

1. Where will you live?

2. How will the home be laid out (square feet, yard, deck, hot tub, bedrooms, bathrooms, garage, family room, dining space, kitchen, parking for guests, etc.)?

3. How will you use your home for your family, hospitality, and ministry?

4. How long is your commute?

5. How can you redeem your commute by making calls, listening to Bible teaching, etc.?

6. What vehicle will you drive?

7. What are the features of your home (parking for guests, square footage, size of yard, number of bedrooms, home study, hardwood floors, air conditioning)?

8. What furniture and appliances will you have gotten rid of or acquired?

9. Other?

Bedroom

1. What will your bedroom be like?

2. How will your bedroom be romantic and a private oasis to connect?

3. Will you have a TV in your bedroom? If you have a TV, keep it separate and not at the foot of your bed.

4. Will you have a private master bath?

5. Will you have a lock on your bedroom door for privacy if you have children?

6. Will you keep all your work (computers, projects, desk, etc.) out of your bedroom?

Technology

1. How will you use technology but not allow it to rule your life?

2. When will you agree to have the phone and computer off (dinnertime, while in your bedroom, on date night)?

Extended Family

1. Which close relatives are not living?

2. What is your relationship like with each close family