The Art Instinct_ Beauty, Pleasure, & Human Evolution - Denis Dutton [77]
Women, on the other hand, find men attractive who have wide shoulders and muscular upper-body mass, including pectoral muscles and This proportion is opposed to the least-liked pear shape created narrow shoulders and fat in the abdomen and hips. Outside of primary sexual organs, upper-body musculature is one region where we see biggest general differences between male and female bodies. Women have around three-quarters of male strength in their legs but only a third the bench-press strength that requires arm and chest muscles. When comes to the hand grasp, men are on average fully twice as strong women, justifying all of those requests to husbands to twist off difficult lids. Nicely configured muscles over a relative absence of abdominal remain for women a significant potential feature in defining a beautiful man. Such beefcake may not be the best mate choice for a woman but along with other Pleistocene tastes, the attraction remains.
Two “mirror” asymmetries between women and men persist across cultures. One is the preference of women for older men, which mirrors preference of men for younger women. The difference is just short of three years worldwide for actual marriages, and the averages of aspiration for of a spouse varies from culture to culture. The evolutionary psychologist Donald Buss rec ords that in Zambia men prefer a wife seven years younger, while women want a husband four years older. In the United States and Canada, women indicate that they want men between two and three years older, while men want women about two years younger. In no culture are these average preferences close to equal, let alone reversed.
This age-preference psychology is explained by the fact that women status and resources in their mates, and these tend to accrue to relatively older males. In the Pleistocene context, the female preference older men may have involved other factors difficult now to determine with certainty: knowledge, patience, and perhaps the more mature male’s greater willingness to stick around, provide for his mate, and protect their children. younger wives. A small survival and reproductive advantage for this age differential has engraved these preferences in the species. This has many implications and by-products today, stretching from the insurance industry the use—overwhelmingly female—of cosmetic wrinkle creams and hair against graying. The Pleistocene, it seems, was in respect of female desirability as much a “youth culture” as anything we see today.
Another persis tent mirror asymmetry is the strong preference of individual women for men who are taller than they are, which is coupled with a much weaker preference of men for shorter women. While differential might still have uses both for men and women in choosing mates today, the height differential is obsolete for survival in modern world, and in fact may be counterproductive, inconve niently closing off pairings that might otherwise have been excellent for both parties. Yet women’s preference for height remains especially powerful, the psychologist Nancy Etcoff has entertainingly described, showing itself in both the appeal relatively tall men have for women, what heights of both, and also in the absolute appeal of male height from female perspective. Women