The Cat Behavior Answer Book - Arden Moore [27]
Do not be so eager to pet Peaches for a while. Greet her in a friendly tone, but avoid petting her for a couple of days. This will make her desire your physical attention. When you do pet her, do so for just a few seconds and then stop. By being better in tune with her body signals, you can stop before Peaches feels overwhelmed and save your hand from an unwanted bite.
Beating Up the Poor Dog
Q I never thought I would live to see the day that a cat would bully a dog. But unfortunately, that’s the case in my household. My three-year-old tabby, Roo, taunts, stalks, and even swipes at my dog, Tigger. Tigger is a two-year-old male toy poodle-terrier mix who weighs about the same as the cat. Why does Roo badger Tigger, and what can I do to stop this behavior? I’m afraid Roo will injure Tigger.
A The real truth about cats and dogs is that dogs are not always the bullies. Some cats torment their canine roommates. It isn’t about physical size; it’s all about attitude. I’ve seen a cat take on a German shepherd and send that big dog fleeing in fear. Bully cats like Roo want to control practically every situation. They may even attempt to push their people around, too, by demanding meals when they want them and nipping hands when they have decided they have received enough petting.
Bully cats do not accept punishment or corrections, but they do have a weak spot — they want attention. Use that to your advantage to help Tigger. Retraining a bossy feline is much like training a dominant dog. Start by exercising Roo more frequently to expend some of his excessive energy and turn his attention to you as a playmate instead of poor Tigger. Protect your hands by engaging him in games with a fishing pole toy or cat teaser (a coiled wire with a small bundle of lightweight wood on one end that moves erratically, imitating the movement of a butterfly).
With regard to Tigger, the first step is to stop the attack. Look for early warning signs and stop a fight before it starts. Right before an attack, a cat will typically dip his head, arch his back end, and shimmy a bit. If you see this, try to remain calm. Scolding and high-pitched shrieks may only serve to fuel Roo’s aggressiveness toward Tigger. Instead, step in and try distracting Roo with food treats or a favorite toy or spend a moment rubbing under his chin. Cats can’t be happy and mad at the same time.
Separate the two when you cannot be around to supervise them. Avoid having them together during high-energy times, like at mealtimes and when you arrive home. Reintroduce them when they are both tired — for instance, after you have played with Roo and taken Tigger for a brisk walk. When you do bring them together, keep Tigger on a leash and let him learn Roo’s signals. Do this until you see that both pets are calm. Then unleash Tigger. Finally, make sure that Roo’s claws are trimmed to avoid injuries to Tigger.
Feuding Felines
Q I have two cats under two years old who are not related. I adopted Abby first and brought home Buster two months later. Within the first day, they were buddies. But last week, Abby’s attitude toward Buster turned hostile. I am now keeping them in different parts of the house. When the door is accidentally opened, Abby will try to attack Buster who hisses and runs away to hide. I love both cats dearly and wish they could be friends again. What can I do to restore the peace?
A Cats are pros at hiding pain and discomfort. An underlying medical condition may