The Happiness Myth_ An Expose - Jennifer Hecht [124]
The modern sexologist Alfred Kinsey counseled that a happy life needed sex. For his bestselling books Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, published in 1948, and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, published in 1953, Kinsey and his assistants asked people how many sexual partners they had had, whether they engaged in oral sex, group sex, or homosexual sex, and other rather personal questions. His conclusions surprised people: apparently, there was a lot more of all this going on than people had guessed. As with Ellis, Stopes, Freud, and Reich, Kinsey was angry about the sexual repression of the world in which he had been raised. His results also demonstrated that many people felt injured and frustrated by sexual conventions. Over the next decades, a lot of the weird sexual rules of the previous century were looked at anew and discarded.
Of course, the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s was also brought into being by penicillin and the birth-control pill. These two marvels of modern science removed, for a while, the most serious traditional threats of sex: deadly disease and unwanted pregnancy. The old electrical-switchboard idea where a person could take only so much, and was often better off not taking any, no longer seemed true. More persuasive now was the idea that your life had to be kept in balance, but the more you used it, the bigger it got, and it could grow to any size. That went for your life and your character, and it was conceptually reinforced by the phenomenal growth of the economy in post–World War II America. Gone was the image of the body, and the economy, as a physical machine of set proportions—an always shifting system that, nevertheless, has to fit back into the same box at the end of every day. Not even an animal metaphor seemed right, because that would imply reaching a maximum size at some point. The new idea of the economy, individual character, and a healthy sex life seemed like a forest or perhaps a stew pot. Too much of some quality could ruin everything else, but as long as things are balanced