The Psychology of Dexter - Bella DePaulo [103]
Several other factors also make it possible to reduce the dissonance of rooting for Dexter. Family and work complicate Dexter’s priorities. On the one hand, Dexter might feel he should spend time with the kids or fulfill his professional duties as blood spatter specialist, attending to each of those needs while keeping up “normal” appearances. On the other hand, his over-arching goal is always about making his next kill. The nuances related to each of Dexter’s priorities and the tension created by his having to manage them all simultaneously allow viewers to find nuances in their own responses to Dexter.
Dexter’s relationships do more than complicate Dexter’s life; they also make him a more sympathetic character, and add suspense to the show by putting Dexter in awkward positions as he tries to juggle his family, his job, and staying true to Harry’s Code. When people sympathize with a character, they experience more suspense and prefer positive outcomes for the character. 43 His interactions with Rita in particular provide a specific means for viewers to identify with his character. Viewers in relationships have probably shared experiences similar to Dexter’s, in which he wants to make his partner happy but is unsure of what to say to achieve that goal. Even though viewers don’t share the cause of Dexter’s frustration (i.e., an antisocial lack of emotions and a desire to avoid getting caught as a murderer), they can still identify with the situation and develop sympathy for Dexter. Because viewers sympathize with Dexter, they will support him and hope that he succeeds.
These are not the only options for Dexter viewers who seek to alleviate cognitive dissonance. Recall the demonstration that dissonance reduction often results in belief change: participants reported a dull task to have been (somewhat) enjoyable. Similarly, frequent Dexter viewers may lose access to aspects of the program that strike more casual viewers as problematic. Research in psychology suggests that people are more likely to remember information that is consistent with a particular choice (such as choosing to support Dexter’s behavior) and may even distort information that is inconsistent with that choice.44 Suppose Dexter viewers selectively remember information that is consistent with their choice (such as the fact that Dexter’s actions stop serial killers). This memory bias should help make dissonant information inaccessible. Thus, the bias will reduce both viewers’ cognitive dissonance and the possibility that they will feel regret about their choice. These same viewers might further