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146 2002 survey Marla Paul, The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making and Keeping Friends When You’re Not a Kid Anymore (New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2004), 14.
147 harder to maintain friends Jan Yager, When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon or Wound You (New York: Fireside, 2002), 13.
148 sage advice email interview with Erin Torneo, co-author with Erin Torneo of The Bridal Wave: A Survival Guide to the Everyone-I-Know-Is-Getting-Married Years (New York: Villard, 2007), June 6, 2007.
149 “I’m part of a club . . .” Gail Konop Baker, Cancer is a Bitch: Or, I’d Rather Be Having a Midlife Crisis (New York: Da Capo, 2008).
149 “It’s like we share a secret language… Email interview with Gail Konop Baker, January 11, 2009.
150 a strong network of families and friends Press Release from the American College of Surgeons, Patients with Larger Social Networks May Fare Better After an Operation, February 12, 2008, http://www.facs.org/news/jacs/socialconnect0208.html
150 “friends in low places” Helen Russell, “Friends in Low Places: Gender, Unemployment and Sociability,” Work, Employment and Society (1999), 13:205-224 Cambridge University Press, http://journals.cambridg.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=39015 (accessed June 2, 2009).
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163 “positives in your life” Personal email interview with Florence Isaacs, August 26, 2007.
163 blood pressure Julianne Holt-Lunstad et al., “On the importance of relationship quality: The impact of ambivalence in friendships on cardiovascular functioning,” Annals of Behavioral Medicine 33 (2007): 278-290.
165 “suppression and accommodation” personal email interview with Debbie Mandel, May 25, 2007.
170 school of correction Terri Apter and Ruthellen Josselson, Best Friends: The Pleasures and Perils of Girls’ and Women’s Friendships, (New York: Three Rivers Press, 1999), 60.
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181 “lost friends, some by death” Virginia Woolf and Deborah Parsons Wordsworth Editions, 2000, 105.
181 unable to forgive “When Good Friends Go Bad,” Tyra Banks Show Archives, posted starting from June 22, 2007 http://telepicturesblog.warnerbros.com/tyrashow/2007/06/when_good_friends_go_bad.html (accessed June 2, 2009).
195 EBF Amy Sohn. The Björn Identity, New York Magazine, November 12, 2006.
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199 4 A.M. that matter Marlene Dietrich, Helen Exley, Friendship Quotations (Quotation Books) (Chicago: Helen Exley Giftbooks, 1992). 209 digital technology Marketing Charts, “Youth and Digital Tech - Viacom, Microsoft Global Study Challenges Assumptions,” Press Release, July 25, 2007, http://www.marketingcharts.com/television/youth-and-digital-tech-viacom-microsoft-global-study-challenges-assumptions-1076/ (accessed June 2, 2009).
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211 “family of friends” Quote by Gloria Steinem on wowowow, 4/16/2009, http://www.wowowow.com/politics/gloria-steinem-75-feminists-pro-choice-268505FLor (accessed June 10, 2009).
212 right kind of friends Marla Paul, The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making and Keeping Friends When You’re Not a Kid Anymore (New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2004), 5.
212 buffer against stress Liz Spencer and Ray Pahl, Rethinking Friendship: Hidden Solidarities Today (New York: Princeton University Press, 2006), 28.
212 psychosomatic illness Nicole Knickmeyer, Kim Seton, and Nancy Nishimura, “The Impact of Same-Sex Friendships on the Well-Being of Women,” Women & Therapy 25 (2002): 37-59.
213 biological impact of social isolation UCLA, “UCLA researchers identify the molecular signature of loneliness,” David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA, http://dgsom.healthsciences.ucla.edu/news/detail?rad_id=8214 (accessed June 2, 2009).
213 risk of death http://boomers.msn.com/articleLHJ.aspx?cp-documentid=376471 (accessed June 4, 2008).
217 social media Johanna Pearce, “Facebook eases freshman fears, fosters friendship,” CNNU, http://www.cnn.com/2007/TECH/ptech/09/07/cnnu.facebook/index.html?eref=rss_tech