Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [38]
To perform a great genital massage, start by rubbing and pressing his genitals from the outside of his pants with your hands or thigh. When you start to feel a response, slip down between his legs and unzip his pants. Reach in and touch him. If he's rock solid, he's dying for it and you can plunge right in. If he's soft, he might be a little nervous. Take his penis gingerly into one hand, and while pulsing it slightly between your palm and fingers, lean up and kiss him. A long, tongueful, sexy kiss. Is there any response from down below? Is there a little jolt through your hand? At this point, any movement is good movement.
SETTING HIS STAGE
Pull out his penis and grasp it firmly with one hand at the base (though not too firmly—hold the penis about as hard as you would a baby chick that you don't want to crush, but can't let escape from your hand). If it is entirely soft, use your hand to gently massage it upward, as if you are gently molding it into the desired erect shape. Remember that this is not necessarily a comment on his level of attraction to you. His desire may be off the charts; his penis isn't always going to comply. Don't act surprised. In fact, don't be surprised. Some guys just take a little longer to warm up.
Once he's semierect, hold his balls in one hand and his penis in the other. Squeeze him gently toward the bottom of the shaft while you coat your lips with plenty of saliva. Run your tongue all over your lips, until they're almost as wet as the inside of your mouth. Look up at him and make eye contact. Men are visual creatures, and who can blame them for wanting to watch such an intimate kind of pleasure?
FIND HIS HOT SPOTS
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To find out what he likes best, one direction you can take things in includes a little participation on his part. Squeeze some lube onto your hands and rub about half of it on his hands. This is a nice moment for hand play, and will warm the lube before you place your hands around his penis.
Place your hands in a praying position around his penis, making sure that your fingers are pointing at his chin and the tips are touching while your thumbs come upright together. You have to be between his legs for this one, as the exact angle of your hands is important. Once your hands are well positioned, ask him to place his hands around yours and control the motion and speed of your palms. Even if you speak different languages, this is sure to communicate exactly which types of touches—including pressure, speed, and direction—he likes most.
Search for the Holy Nerve Centers
Another option to find his hot spots is to simply go scouting for them yourself. The Lip Massage has perfectly prepared you to locate the most jam-packed nerve centers on your man's pleasure wand. Every penis has its sweet spots—e.g., the glans or frenulum—but the exact location of the truly astounding sensation makers varies on every penis.
If your lips are both as soft and as they should be after performing the Jug of Plenty exercise, and as controlled as they should be after performing Button Up!, you should have no trouble conducting your hot-spot search. Avoiding the head for now, use light suction to pull about one-half inch of the skin of his shaft into the moist insides of your lips, and simply run along the edges of the shaft a few times. Some men have unusually sensitive spots here in places you wouldn't necessarily expect. Then move your light, mobile suction all around the base of the penis and the underside of the corona. Meanwhile, use your hands to provide rhythmic up-and-down motions. Scan the entire surface area of his penis for the spots that elicit the loudest sounds from him. Think of yourself as a metal detector—except you're looking for something more precious than pennies!
Once you've found a couple of spots