Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [37]
You can be:
The dumb blonde who just wants to screw.
The older-woman seductress luring him in.
The exhibitionist who lets him look up her skirt and fondle her in public.
The boss who demands sex from her employee.
The maid who shows up for more than dusting.
An exotic nurse/bath attendant who learned some special tricks chez elle.
The Striptease
For a gentle foray into this genre of sex play, you can treat him to a striptease. Remember that a fully clothed woman and a fully nude one are both a little less attractive than a scantily clad one. Music is a must if this is your first time, because it will allow you to move more rhythmically and detract from any feelings of awkwardness you might have. After all, everyone dances in their underwear. Just make sure to make plenty of eye contact and move your hips.
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The Basic (Mind-Bending) Blow Job:
A Blow-by-Blow Account
THERE ARE ALMOST as many ways to initiate a BJ as there are men who love them. Here are a few suggested approaches, but remember that you know your man best, so feel free to mix and match.
When you're getting started, be practical: go ahead and take off your rings (especially if they have pointy jewels) and tie your hair back if it's long. Grab a cup of water, if there's one available, or some lubricant. Also, no matter where you are, make sure you seek whatever level of privacy makes you feel relaxed and sexy.
GENTLEMEN, START YOUR ENGINES . . .
The Silent, Sexy Approach
Don't say anything and simply go to your man with a knowing look in your eye. Begin kissing him, murmur how unbelievably sexy he is, and make sure to rub your breasts well into his chest and touch him intimately with your hands as you start to caress his hair, neck, and then his penis through whatever clothes he's about to take off. Move decisively. Oral sex requires the performer to take charge, and a great way to start is by getting your man relaxed in the position that will be most comfortable for you. Once you start directing his motion to a nearby chair or bed, he's unlikely to put up much resistance.
The Teasing Approach
All too often, oral sex is initiated by sucking directly on the penis, as if there was only one goodie in the man store. However, with the single exception of the sudden quickie (where his orgasm is strengthened by delighted surprise), stronger, deeper orgasms are created by beginning with a tease. Or two.
Start by planting gentle, light kisses and nibbles on his inner thighs. A great deal of teasing can occur prior to this point, but the way you tease is more a matter of creativity than skill, so this aspect is up to you. By hook or by crook, once you've reached the genital area, it's time to start employing the more subtle arts of your tongue. The trick here is to move deliberately and slowly, even though you're coming on to him full speed and making him crazy with excitement. Give lingering kisses, and nibble your way down from the chest. Go about two steps slower than you know he wants you to.
Slowly enough to create some exquisite exasperation, but quickly enough to keep him aroused, allow your tongue to come at least two-thirds out of your mouth for a full lollipop-style lick around the perimeter of the genitals. This should be taken at a count of about one second per inch, and should not involve motion in your jaw. After this approach, retreat back down his thighs, leaving him twitching with desire.
THE GENITAL MASSAGE
A nice way to get a firm erection in place is by massaging his genitals—a delightful series of sensations that will get him hard if he isn't splitting his pants open already. Remember that males hit their sexual peak around age