Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [44]
Deep Throating
In order to deep-throat correctly and comfortably, you need to study your own anatomy in addition to his. The primary obstacle is of course the ninety-degree angle behind your tongue that leads down to your throat. The goal, then, is to get his penis past that angle, which is also past your gag reflex. If you don't want to swallow, make sure he's wearing a condom, because the positioning itself makes spitting out afterward a non-option.
Finding the Right Position
The most important aspect of any deep-throat position is that it allows for your throat and mouth to be in a straight line—this means leaning your head all the way back. Mastering the reaction to gag is the one and only trick to this position. Because of the way your mouth and throat are situated, he will be in control. You won't be able to move or offer any stimulation other than that of keeping your mouth tightly closed around his fully inserted cock.
If you lie on a bed with your head on the edge, and tip your head sharply back, your lover will be able to insert more of his cock in your mouth—comfortably—than you ever thought possible. In fact, one of the greatest complications of this position is the tendency for pubic hairs to tickle your nose!
He needs to have his legs spread widely enough apart so that you have maximum movement and access. Maintaining this relaxation during the entire sex event is crucial, because in this position the man must generate all of the motion. He will move back and forth just like intercourse—except for the first time, he will be able to move as deeply into your mouth as he wants to. When you've mastered this position well enough to feel relaxed and comfortable, don't forget to use your hands to reach around and massage his buttocks and tickle his testicles.
If you have trouble mastering your gag reflex, work on completely relaxing your throat in the way described in the Tensing and Relaxing section of chapter 8. You'll need to maintain this relaxation during the entire event, so make sure that you try this with someone you really trust, and approach it with a “practice makes perfect” attitude. Have him insert his cock inch by inch, while you relax your throat muscles, breathe through your nose, and find the most comfortable way to proceed. It is easiest to relax the throat muscles on the exhale of a deep breath. There is no room at all for him to move side to side, so when he's starting to climax you may want to place your hands on his hips to steady his motion.
Remember that it can take some couples the better part of a year to truly master this technique, so don't be discouraged if it takes some practice. Whether it is easy or hard for you and your partner has more to do with the shape of your anatomies than your skill as an oral lover.
Ice-skater
Once you've become comfortable with his cock very deep inside your throat, use this technique to cool your partner down a little without putting him to sleep. Quite the contrary, you'll be scraping him off the ceiling when you're through.
With your lips wrapped firmly around the shaft, try to reach the base. Go as slowly and steadily as you need to, using the principles of deep throating to guide you. When your nose is buried in, or at least touching, his public hairs, use your nose to trace three to four-inch figure eights on his cock. Let your nose lead your mouth and lips, which will stimulate his cock in just the right way. Keep doing figure eights all the way up and down his shaft. Your man is now realizing that the ultimate blow job is not only real—he knows where to get one.
When you get tired of this movement, slow it down and return to a basic move.
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