Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [45]
Before you engage your partner in anilingus, or “rimming,” make sure that he is fresh and clean, preferably just out of the shower. Place a dental dam, opened condom, or plastic wrap over the area, with at least a couple inches to spare on each side. At no time should your tongue come into contact with the anus itself.
Place your partner on his back with his legs in the air and knees close to his shoulders. This is the position for maximum access. Although you might be under the impression that it's necessary to actually penetrate his anus to successfully perform anilingus, that's far from the case. In fact, unless you hit his G-spot (a few inches in toward the balls), very little is contributed to anilingus by penetration, since most of the nerve ending are located in the sphincter itself. Licking around the area, therefore, is even preferable to simply inserting the tongue. Anilingus is a powerful stimulant, and if you combine it with a well-tuned hand job, your man will have a rapid and powerful climax that he won't be forgetting anytime soon.
ADVANCED TESTICLE SUCKING
If your sucking of his testicles is combined with manual stimulation of his glans and perhaps even his nipples (this is possible from the classic position), extremely delightful sensations can be created. The testicles are easily hurt and very sensitive, so handle with care.
Ball Bath
Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue, and as your partner warms up and becomes more passionate, take his nipples between your fingers and give them a light squeeze. Depending on his response, you may want to squeeze a little harder. Be very gentle so that he trusts you with his Twin Cities. Make sure to lick the balls all over to get the little hairs to lie down. Otherwise, you may inadvertently cause him pain by pulling on them with the movement of your mouth.
Tea Bagging
Lick the balls first with a well-moistened tongue, to encourage all of the tiny hairs to lie flat. You will need to keep your mouth wide open for the entirety of this technique, so I hope you've practiced the Side to Side, Up and Down, and Open Wide exercises from chapter 7. Once you have taken one or both of the testicles into your wide-open mouth, close only your lips to create very gentle suction; focus especially on rotating your tongue in circular motions on the underside of the balls to stimulate the place where the bottom of the testicles join the perineum. You can use your hands to stimulate your partner's penis, especially the soft head, and watch out for the fireworks.
Tea Bagging
Lollipop Lick
Make sure your man is in an elevated position while you're on your knees facing him. Lift his cock to expose his balls. Using the tip of your tongue, find the underside of his balls where the skin joins the perineum. While resting his balls on your moist tongue, lick with an upward stroke to the tip of his cock. This technique is best performed in a succession of strokes, just like licking an oversized lollipop. Use flavored lube for a more complete rendition.
Few men can tolerate the lollipop lick for long without climaxing, so either limit this technique to three or four strokes, or save the lollipops for dessert.
HANDIWORK
Flexible and dexterous, the hands are an excellent sexual tool. Use a few of these techniques to put some variety in your handiwork.
Twist and (Listen to Him) Shout
You can keep one hand clasped firmly around the middle of the penis while cupping the other and rubbing your cupped palm over and around the head of the penis as if you were juicing a lemon. But instead of just twisting it from side to side, use your fingers and the angle of your hand to twist and pull upward at the same time, with your fingers stretching down for the beginning of the twist and gradually pulling up for a flourish at the end.
Break It Down
Place both your hands on the penis so that the majority of the shaft is covered. Now gently turn your hands in opposite directions around the shaft. Meanwhile, slip the index finger of your upper hand up onto the ridge of the glans;