Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [46]
MISCHIEVOUS MISCELLANY
Here are a few extras that will drive him crazy regardless of what position you're in, what time of day it is, or where you are. These tips are made to travel.
The Kiss of Life
When he's in need of major revitalization, use the Kiss of Life. Once your man has ejaculated, you're going to have a hard (no pun intended) time getting him to ejaculate again. Use this technique to get him hard enough to climax again (and again and again).
Beyond the Thirty-Second Orgasm technique of stimulating the coronal ridge, you're going to need to do more than simply stimulate his genitals to elicit a second (and third, and fourth) orgasm. Although you can get him hard again, you still have a good stretch of road ahead of you before he can climax again. Combine some of the basic techniques to get the juices flowing, but the best idea for the second and third rounds is to explore the rest of his body.
This is a particularly delicious moment in oral sex—since there's no pressure to make him climax, you can take your sweet time touching every square inch of his body with your tongue just to see what effect it has. If you haven't been stimulating these much so far, use this time to pay some attention to his nipples and his earlobes, his perineum, balls, and anus, as well as the backs of his knees, toes, fingers, neck, navel, and sacrum. (Review chapter 11 for a more in-depth look at other erogenous zones.)
The second round is a perfect time to introduce a sex toy—from feather to ice cube to vibrator—to get him interested and ready for another go-round.
How to Put on a Condom with Your Mouth
While the condom is still in its wrapper, quickly make sure that it has an air bubble inside the wrapper (otherwise it might be punctured) and check the expiration date. If these make the cut, very gently open the package, being especially careful not to press too hard if you have long nails. Pinch the condom by the tip (and make sure you're not holding it upside down, especially if you've had a few drinks). Place the entire condom in your mouth, with the ring behind your teeth and your tongue pressed against the reservoir tip.
Putting a Condom on with Your Mouth
The blade of your tongue should be flattened wide enough to cover the entire tip. With the condom in your mouth, drop a little lube on your guy's tip. If you're concerned about the taste, use one that's flavored. Lower your head, and use your tongue to press out all the air from the reservoir tip against his glans. This can be a fun opportunity for a little frenulum action as well. When your tongue has pressed out all the air, release the ring of the condom and place your lips above it, unrolling it down the length of his shaft on one long, gently pressing motion. Conform your lips to his shape, but be careful not to bite. Too hard.
Orgasm Catalyst
To take your blow jobs to the next level, place your thumb at the base of the penis so that the tube through which the semen ejaculates is blocked. If your thumb is placed correctly, the semen will not be able to release even though your man will be spasming and otherwise experiencing every aspect of a full-fledged climax.
While you're holding your thumb in this position, suck the glans with some serious verve. When you finally allow the semen to release, his ejaculation will last much longer and will be much more intense than any standard orgasm. Even if you delay it for just a few moments or seconds, you'll be surprised at the intensity of the resulting ejaculation. But not as surprised as he is!
THE JOYS OF TOYS
Some toys are definitely not made for children. Introducing these into the bedroom can add a whole new dimension to your sex life, and can make oral sex more exciting—and a whole lot more pleasurable.
Mini-Vibrator
Start with a vibrator about four inches long and three-quarters inch in diameter. To soften the sensations, consider buying a soft, penis-shaped plastic sleeve. While fellating your partner, use any of the oral techniques