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From this position, he can use a free hand to stroke your hair, pinch his (or your) nipples, and caress and stimulate his testicles and shaft while you give him oral sex. This can be a great way to experiment with what he likes together, because when you approach from the side, you both have room to participate.

THE SWING OF THINGS

If you need to switch to a position that will relax the muscles of your neck and back, and happen to be on a large enough surface or can get to one, switch to the Swing of Things. In this position, he is lying back and just relaxing. You are in a modified 69 position over him, with your legs to one side. Wrap one arm under the thigh closest to you, so that you can provide stimulation to his perineum, his testicles, and the sensitive skin surrounding these areas. With the other hand, make sure that your index and middle finger make good contact with the other side of his penis, because the frenulum will still need to be stimulated.

This position is great for using the ridges along the top of your mouth to stimulate the juncture beneath the corona, where the various types of skin come together. Also, you can make the most of the soft, gentle contact between your chest and his abdomen, perhaps initiating a soft rocking or “swinging” motion that some men love. Make sure that your mouth is open wide enough to avoid any contact with your teeth, perhaps covering them with the skin of your lips to avoid chafing. This position requires a good bit of lubrication, but the benefits are worth it.

The Swing of Things

MAN'S ALL-TIME FAVORITE POSITION

If it came down to a matter of voting, this position would probably win. The man lies back and enters a fully receptive mode, without even flexing his knees. You bend over him—ideally from below—and give him oral sex from above. Though it does little for your comfort, the total comfort on his part does help him relax and focus on the pleasure you're giving him.

This position is best for a long, leisurely Sunday blow job. You can take your time, reach up and easily play with his nipples, caress his legs and thighs, and generally have enough freedom of movement so that the only limits are those of your imagination.

GOING TO CHURCH

In this position, the man is standing up and leaning against a wall and you are on your knees. Ideally, depending on your relative heights, your big head is just above his little one, so that by leaning slightly forward your lips will touch the tip of his penis and beyond (yes, you will look like you're praying, and yes, that is how this position got its name).

One of the several benefits of this position is the psychological impact on the man when he sees you in such a wholly compliant and giving position, 100 percent focused on his pleasure. While your feminist friends might puke at the notion, the likelihood is that it will turn him on in a major way. And if you don't get the gist of that, have him perform oral sex on you while kneeling in front of you, and see if your legs don't turn to Jell-O.

In this position, guys can get so excited and orgasmic that their legs will routinely begin to shake. Don't be scared—they rarely actually fall.

SWORD SWALLOWER

In this position, the man stands with one leg slightly forward and bent, while the woman is on all fours in front of him. As the name suggests, it's an excellent position for deep-throat techniques. Sword Swallower allows the woman both total access and more control than other deep-throat positions. The alignment of the neck to the penis allows the woman to easily take in a longer penis. A pillow under your hands and knees is a nice touch.

Going to Church

Sword Swallower

MUTUAL LOVE-FEST

In this pleasure-for-two scenario, the man kneels on the edge of a bed (or other raised surface) while you stand on the floor with one leg propped up on the side of the bed (usually on the bed frame). Once you're in position, give him oral sex focusing on the head. While your hands gently massage his balls, he will be more than happy to return