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15. Simon P. Wood, trans., “The Fathers of the Church,” Clement of Alexandria (New York: Fathers of the Church, 1954), xxxiii, 175.
16. H. Wayne House, “Should Christians Use Birth Control?” Christian Research Institute, http://www.equip.org/site/c.muI1LaMNJrE/b.2717865/k.B30F/DE194.htm; Ocellus Lucanus, text and commentary by Richard Harder (Berlin, 1926).
17. William G. Cole, Sex in Christianity and Psychoanalysis (New York: Oxford University Press, 1966).
18. Vern L. Bullough, Sexual Variance in Society and History (New York: Wiley Interscience, 1976).
19. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, trans. Fathers of the English Dominican Province (New York: Benziger Brothers, 1948), III, qu. 41, art. 4, http://www.newadvent.org/summa/5041.htm.
20. Belden C. Lane, “Two Schools of Desire: Nature and Marriage in Seventeenth-Century Puritanism,” Church History 69 (2000): 372–402.
21. Stephanie Coontz, Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage (New York: Penguin, 2006), 86; Pierre Guichard and Jean-Pierre Cuviller, “Barbarian Europe,” in A History of the Family, Volume I: Distant Worlds, Ancient Worlds, eds. Andre Burguiere et al., (Cambridge, MA: Belknap Press, 1996), 331.
22. Charles Lewis, “Avoid ‘Misuse of Sex’ in Marriage, Canadian Bishops Warn,” National Post, January 28, 2011, http://life.nationalpost.com/2011/01/28/canadian-bishops-warn-against-‘misuse-of-sex’-in-marriage/#ixzz1DhJav0Tp.
23. Mary Pride, The Way Home: Beyond Feminism, Back to Reality (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 1985), 27.
24. William Whately, A Bride-Bush, or a Direction for Married Persons (London, 1616), 18–20; and William Gouge, Of Domestical Duties (London: J. Haviland, 1622), 221. Quoted in Lane, “Two Schools of Desire," 372–402.
25. “How Sexual Experiences Become Addictions,” http://www.new-life.net/sex2.htm.
Chapter 7
1. Justin S. and Lindsey A. Holcomb, Rid of My Disgrace (Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 2011), 33–34.
2. Ibid.
3. Miroslav Volf, The End of Memory: Remembering Rightly in a Violent World (Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans, 2006), 75.
4. Holcomb and Holcomb, Rid of My Disgrace, 28–29. Their definition of rape, and different types of rape, is helpful as well:
The definition of rape is straightforward in nature. As defined in the American Journal of Psychiatry, rape is. . .“forced sexual intercourse that may be heterosexual or homosexual which involves insertion of an erect penis or an inanimate object into the female vagina or the male anus; in both sexes, rape may also include forced oral or anal penetration” (C. Faravelli, A. Glugni, S. Salvatori, V. Ricca, “Psychopathology After Rape,” American Journal of Psychiatry 61, no. 8 [2004]: 1483–1485). The definition of rape then proceeds to be broken down into varying categories based on the relationship between the victim and the perpetrator. Acquaintance rape is rape in which the victim knows the offender but has had no dating relationship with him or her. Date rape is rape in which the victim knows the perpetrator through some level of social interaction. Statutory rape is rape in which intercourse may be a consensual event but the act between the two individuals violates the age-of-consent law. Spousal rape is rape in which the victim and perpetrator are married or participating in a de facto living situation (Alan Wertheimer, Consent to Sexual Relations, Cambridge Studies in Philosophy and Law [Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2003], 74–77). 213n5.
5. Ibid., 15.
6. Martin Luther, “The Seven Penitential Psalms” (1517) in Day by Day We Magnify Thee: Daily Readings for the Entire Year (Minneapolis: Fortress, 1982), 321.
7. See Mike Wilkerson, “Introduction” in Redemption: Freed by Jesus from the Idols We Worship and the Wounds We Carry (Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 2011), 21–40.
8. A. W. Tozer, The Knowledge of the Holy (New York: Harper, 1978).
9. Such as Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus, Intimate Issues (Colorado Springs, CO: Waterbrook Press, 1999); Edward T. Welch, When People Are Big and God Is Small (Phillipsburg, NJ: P&R Publishing, 1997);