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10. See http://www.ccef.org.
11. Holcomb and Holcomb, Rid of My Disgrace, 63.
12. www.kidsneedtoknow.com.
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1. William M. Struthers, Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2009), 85.
2. Ibid., 95.
3. Ibid., 96.
4. Ibid., 97.
5. Ibid., 98–99.
6. Ibid., 105.
7. Ibid., 67.
8. David Leafe, “Playboy mansion? More like a squalid prison: Former Playmates tell of ‘grubby’ world inside Hugh Hefner’s empire,” Daily Mail, December 31, 2010, http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1342643/Hugh-Hefners-Playboy-mansion-like-squalid-prison-say-Playmates.html#ixzz19jjDjrUu.
9. E.g., The Girls Next Door, Gene Simmons [of Kiss] Family Jewels, Married to Rock, and Rock of Love with Bret Michaels.
10. “Laurence Fishburne’s Daughter: How I Got Started Making Porn,” UsMagazine.com, August, 10, 2010, http://www.usmagazine.com/moviestvmusic/news/laurence-fishburnes-daughter-how-i-got-started-making-porn--2010108.
11. Drew Pinsky and S. Mark Young, The Mirror Effect: How Celebrity Narcissism Is Endangering Our Families—and How to Save Them (New York: Harper, 2010).
12. Ibid., 201–6.
13. Robert Jensen, “Cruel to Be Hard: Men and Pornography,” Sexual Assault Report (January/February 2004), 33–48.
14. Ted Bundy, interview by James Dobson, “Fatal Addiction: Ted Bundy’s Final Interview,” January 23, 1989, http://www.pureintimacy.org/piArticles/A000000433.cfm.
15. William M. Struthers, Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2009), 37–38.
16. Naomi Wolf, “The Porn Myth,” New York Magazine, 2003, http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9437/.
17. Struthers, Wired for Intimacy, 20.
18. Robert Grove and Blaise Zerega, “The Lolita Problem,” Red Herring, January 2, 2002, 47–53.
19. Gail Dines, Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality (Boston, MA: Beacon Press, 2010), 142.
20. Ibid., 94.
21. Struthers, Wired for Intimacy, 106.
22. In addition to the resources cited in this chapter, the following may be helpful. For the spouse who has been cheated on with porn: Vicki Tiede, interview by Tim Challies, “Spiritual Healing in the Midst of a Husband’s Addiction to Pornography,” January 12, 2011, http://www.challies.com/interviews/spiritual-healing-in-the-midst-of-a-husbands-addiction-to-pornography (this is a woman’s gospel-centered insights to healing from a husband’s pornography addiction); Debra Laaser, Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2008); Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus, Intimate Issues (Colorado Springs: Waterbrook Press, 1999) (which includes a chapter addressing what to do when the husband is failing in the area of pornography); Laurie Hall, An Affair of the Mind (Colorado Springs: Focus on the Family Publishing, 1998); Fred and Brenda Stoeker and Mike Yorkey, Every Heart Restored: A Wife’s Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband’s Sexual Sin (Colorado Springs, CO: Waterbrook Press, 2010). Additional resources: www.pureintimacy.org (this is a Focus on the Family and Dr. James Dobson website, which has a great deal of information about intimacy, sexual addiction, and sexuality in general); http://xxxchurch.com/ (which has a ton of resources and recommendations, including accountability software); Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, and Mike Yorkey, Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (Colorado Springs, CO: Waterbrook Press, 2000); Douglas Wilson, Fidelity: What It Means To Be a One-Woman Man (Moscow, ID: Canon Press, 1999); Mark Driscoll, Porn-Again Christian: A Frank Discussion on Pornography