The Dog Behavior Answer Book - Arden Moore [89]
When a pet dies away from home, out of sight and smell of the remaining pets in the household, the surviving pets may keep searching in vain for their pal. In a survey taken by the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA), researchers found that 36 percent of dogs ate less than normal after a canine pal died. About 11 percent refused to eat at all, and 63 percent began to howl and vocalize more than normal. Overall, more than half — 66 percent — displayed four or more behavior changes after the death of a dog or cat companion.
To help Bosco and Clyde cope with the loss of Bubba, introduce them to new toys, entice them to play a favorite game, and offer high-value treats. Spend more time giving them affection and hugs. If their grief-related behaviors persist, please consult your veterinarian about temporarily giving them medication to cope with their depression or anxieties. Don’t rush to bring home a new dog or cat, thinking that this newcomer will help ease their grief. Some people are so overcome by grief that they make mistakes during this “rebound” period and chose an inappropriate replacement pet. Introducing a new pet too soon may add to the sadness and confusion the survivors are feelings. Just as you do, Sammy and Clyde need time to properly grieve the loss of Bubba.
Knowing When to Say Good-bye
Q I love dogs but I hate that they don’t live as long as we do. My latest dog, Sparky, has been diagnosed with bone cancer in his front leg. He is a feisty, friendly Chihuahua who is only seven years old. I know that even if we do beat this cancer, Sparky will eventually reach that point when he dies on his own or I must make that painful decision to put him to sleep. How will I know when it is the right time to euthanize him?
A Saying good-bye to a loyal pet is one of life’s hardest decisions. If your dog becomes terminally ill or is critically injured, or the cost for treatment is financially beyond your means, euthanasia may be a valid option. Fortunately for Sparky, canine medicine has made amazing strides in treating cancer and other serious diseases. Cancer centers for companion animals now exist at veterinary schools as well as at privately funded research centers throughout the country. Bone cancer is serious, however, and it is wise to ask this question before it reaches the point where you don’t have the time to carefully consider all options. The more you are able to prepare for the possible loss of your pet, the fewer regrets you will have.
Before Sparky becomes seriously ill, make an appointment with your veterinarian. Ask him or her to describe the methods and details of the euthanasia procedure. You may be amazed at how peaceful and pain-free this procedure is. Preparing for euthanasia includes determining when and where the procedure should take place. Your vet may be willing to make a house call. You will need to decide if you want your pet’s body to be buried or cremated. Think about your own needs and decide whether you would prefer to be alone after the procedure or if you want to spend time with a special friend.
When is the right time? That is certainly an individual call, but quality of life is your guidepost in making the decision. You will probably know when it is right by paying careful attention to Sparky’s signals. He may stop eating, be unable to go to the bathroom on his own, or begin to sleep all the time. Look for signs of pain or dis-comfort that cannot be eased with medication.
Please keep this final thought in mind: The very definition of euthanasia means a painless death to end physical suffering in our animal friends. It is truly the last gift we can give them.
BREED BYTE
Named for the region of Mexico where they were first bred in the mid-19th century, the Chihuahua stands short on stature but long on longevity.