Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [18]
If you just made a tentative First Kiss and your partner isn't responding much, but isn't pushing you away or turning their face from you, they are probably somewhat apprehensive. This could be for a variety of reasons, personal or external. Do not rush or force this person—a few very light and nonthreatening kisses on the cheeks, forehead, and hair may open them up like a flower. Gentle conversing, good eye contact, and light embraces are the best ways to make your partner feel comfortable. These light little kisses say, “It's okay with me that you don't want to go further than this right now. I enjoy just being with you.”
If correctly done, this kind of “I like just being with you” kiss will increase your sexual connection with your partner. If done with too much pressure, your partner will either feel overwhelmed or so exceptional that they will be calling you for the next millennium.
The Good Enough for Seconds Kiss
This kiss is a step beyond the first kiss, and consists of an explorative, repetitive touching of the lips that says, “Hello, here I am,” then withdraws, but comes back again as if to say, “That's good enough for seconds.” Picture someone tasting a new kind of ice cream cone for the first time—at first their lips touch the ice cream for a second, then they pull back, decide they like it, and go in for more. This kind of kiss can make your partner feel very special and desired. If your partner is responding well, by moving their own lips, that is the cue that they are ready for a more intense kind of kiss.
The Shower of Kisses
These are light little kisses showered all around the mouth, and can even extend to the cheeks. These kinds of kisses express how much you like your partner, as if you find their entire being wonderful and kissable, not just their lips. Again, don't move forward unless your partner is responding to your kisses with movement.
The Relationship Changer
This is a somewhat firmer kiss that clearly indicates your desire for your partner. Until now, the First Kiss, the testing kisses, and the Shower of Kisses have indicated strong liking and affection. This firmer (not forceful) return to the mouth is about more. It says, “I want you.” This is the kiss that breaks platonic bonds. It is not a hard kiss, but is unquestionably somewhat stronger than the earlier ones, and uses the entire lips, as you pull one or both of their lips into yours for moments at a time.
A good way to develop this kiss at home is with a pitted plum. Choose a plum that is not too ripe or soft. Cut the plum in half and take out the pit. When you're ready, squeeze the half plum so that it shapes itself like a slightly parted mouth, and bring it to your mouth. Move your tongue beneath the top ridge of the plum, and then the bottom. Try pulling first the top edge, and then the bottom into your mouth with your lips. Use the insides of your lips to pull the ridges in. This exercise will teach you how to use your entire lips to engage your partner's mouth. As you pull in each “lip” of the plum, see if you can rhythmically suck and massage it, varying the pressure and level of suction, instead of simply pulling on it.
The Hollywood Kiss
This is the first kiss where your partner will need to open their mouth. You can try to nudge it open lightly with your mouth, but this movement should be light and gentle, not sudden or forced. If your partner opens to accept your mouth readily, let the insides of your mouths become indistinguishable and surrender to each other.
The Tongue Exploration
This kiss is not to be confused with a poke or a prod. The tongue should not be overly pointed or aggressive. Instead, the introduction of the tongue should be the silky and soft presentation of the tongue on and around the lips. Think exploration, not excavation. Simply run your tongue along and around your partner's inner lips, gently sucking their lips, one at a time, into your own mouth.
Using your tongue indicates a greater degree of intimacy between you and your partner, so be sure that your partner is comfortable with the