Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [25]
PUT A TIGER IN YOUR TANK
Breathing properly is the fastest and most efficient source of energy available to a human being. Putting oxygen in your lungs keeps you alert, vigorous, and ready for physical activity. Unfortunately, it isn't as easy as it seems to pull air directly into your lungs. The only way to really get the air to come swiftly and directly into your lungs—rather than your stomach—is to breathe in through your nose with your lips closed, and that's not a habit most of us have truly acquired. Think about it this way: If you put food in your mouth, it goes into your stomach. Well, the same goes for air. Trying to breathe by putting air in your mouth is about as effective as trying to eat by putting food up your nose. Sure, a little bit will make it down there. But you need more than a little, especially when you're hard at work giving a good mange.
As for oral sex, there are several reasons that you should learn to breathe correctly. In order to perform oral sex for any significant period of time, you need to be able to pull lots of fresh oxygen in your lungs quickly and easily, without gasping or gulping. Have you ever been giving someone oral sex, and felt kind of like you were doing a bunch of work for nothing? You may give all sorts of interpretations to thoughts like these, but they're simple and natural responses to an insufficient oxygen supply to your muscles. Proper breathing can keep that oxygen flowing into the active muscles, which will keep you feeling good about giving your partner pleasure with plenty of extra energy to go on a riff when you get inspired.
The rest of this chapter presents a quick and dirty regime to help you gain control and mastery over your breathing. It's basically divided into two parts, with two objectives. The first segment is made up of exercises to help you relax the throat and jaw muscles, and will make your lips, tongue, and neck more flexible and less likely to cramp. The second will help you to develop better involuntary breathing habits, and will help your stamina and overall performance.
THROAT AND JAW BREATHING EXERCISES
Tension in the throat and jaw area is one of the most restricting factors to pleasurable oral sex performance. If your throat and jaw muscles are too tight, your flexibility and comfort will be compromised. These exercises will also help you develop a pleasant, powerful speaking voice.
Head Rolls
To relax the throat and jaw muscles, sit in a chair or on the floor with your back straight and supported by a wall. Make sure the surface is hard enough to support a straight back, no matter what posture your head might be in. A good way to test this is to find a place where you can sit comfortably, then move your head in a circle. If your spine collapses forward, you're not using a firm enough surface. Make sure you choose a spot where you can move your head in a circle without significant movement in your spine.
Once you're situated, relax your shoulders and let your head begin to roll to the right across your chest without exerting any energy. Imagine your head is a big balloon filled with water, and you are simply letting it roll forward. Exhale while your head rolls across the chest in a clockwise circle, and inhale as it starts to roll across your shoulders. Feel the tension draining out of your neck and jaw. Don't try to stretch or strain yourself. No pressing, and no pulling. If you feel strain anywhere, restrict your motion to a smaller circle. Now reverse the direction, rolling your head counterclockwise. Keep alternating direction every two or three revolutions, exhaling and letting your mouth open as your head comes back, inhaling and letting your mouth close as you roll your head forward.
Once you've started to relax the muscles of your neck and throat (about one minute), allow your tongue