Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [31]
Like everything else, nature has marked the human penis with a love of variety. The penis can range in color from a creamy, cherry-blossom pink to a dark-chocolate brown, and its shape is hardly democratic. Ranging from less than three to more than thirteen inches, the penis can narrow to a fine point, widen from its base, or lay as level as a piece of timber. The only guarantee is that your man's penis will be entirely unique. Its shape, by the way, is no indication of how it will feel inside you—sometimes that funny curve is just enough to hit your G-spot, while a ramrod might leave you unexpectedly wanting more. Beyond the visuals, penises are as different in likes and dislikes as the men they're attached to.
But unlike many men, penises will immediately tell you what they're feeling. If they like something, they grow bigger. If they don't, they shrink. For this reason, you need to form a personal bond with your man's most expressive organ. It will reveal more secrets to you about giving him head than anything else.
To kick off this mutually rewarding relationship, the first thing you need to do is to really look at your partner's penis—and not just a cursory glance or a horrified, furtive survey. If you're not sure how this will make your partner feel, simply suggest that some kind of reward is in store for him if he lets you gaze at “length.”
When you first pull the penis out for your inspection, it will most likely be flaccid. But it probably won't take long for a full erection to blossom under your gaze. Ideally, you should both be nude; you don't want to make him feel that he's in the doctor's office (unless of course you're playing the nubile nurse).
MASCULINE ANATOMY: LET'S HANG OUT
The male penis is a fairly complex and intricate organ, despite its apparent simplicity. It is extremely distinct from the rest of the male body, complete with a unique type of skin. While most of us would have no trouble identifying the differences between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis, understanding the wide range of more subtle distinctions requires a bit more study.
Aside from the shaft, the meatus (the opening in the head of the penis to allow ejaculate to come out), and the head, which are fairly self-explanatory, there are two distinct areas of the penis that are of particular importance to oral sex:
The Circumcised Penis
• The reddish or purplish glans or glans penis (head of the penis that begins above the ridge) is smooth, shiny, moist and extremely sensitive.
• The frenulum, or frenum, is a connecting membrane on the underside of the penis, similar to that beneath the tongue.
Of the various parts of the penis, the all-important anatomy for oral sex on a circumcised man is the frenulum and the glans. For an uncircumcised man, add to this the foreskin and the frenar band. Each of these structures creates a different feeling when stimulated, and each contributes a vital aspect to a man's experience of oral sex.
The Shaft
In a young or inexperienced partner, you may find that shaft stimulation alone creates an orgasm rather quickly—as will perhaps the sight of nude breasts. On an older or more experienced partner, don't waste your time. Your man will love it if you make his sensations more complete by encircling his shaft in your hands and moving them rhythmically with your mouth as you fellate him, but letting the shaft take center stage is for times when you want to slow things down, since it is not nearly as dense in nerve endings as the other parts of the penis.
The Glorious Glans
You will notice that at the top of the shaft there is a bulbous part of the penis usually called the head. This is the largest concentration of nerve endings in the penis, making the glans extremely responsive to stimulation—and sometimes