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The outer perimeter of the glans is called the corona, which joins the head to the shaft. This little ridge is the more specific spot where the main nerve endings of the glans are concentrated. This ridge loves to be approached from both above and below. Since most men are more sensitive on one side than the other, try both on a new partner and pay close attention to the moans or bodily spasms stimulating each side elicits.

The levels of stimulation good for the glans will vary during the pleasure cycle, so keep a watchful eye out for signals to turn up the volume, to keep it right there, or to lay off for a while.

Engaging the glans when a full erection is already in place will raise the intensity level from hot to orgasmic. Until you're ready for that shift, light licking and sucking is more than enough to grace the glans, an area powerful enough to trigger an orgasm all by itself. The bottom line? Go wild on the glans when you're ready for him to climax.

If your man is uncircumcised, a great way to lightly engage the glans while he's still soft is by poking your tongue inside the space between the foreskin and the glans beneath. Poking and prying into this very sensitive area creates a variety of tantalizing sensations, which are heightened even more by the introduction of an ice cube or a mouthful of warm water.

The Fantastic Frenulum

Once there's a well-developed erection, the skin of the frenulum (and frenar band, if he has one) is stretched tightly enough from the corona to become extremely responsive to the lightest lick of your warm, wet tongue. As always, make sure that your tongue is very moist and exploratory. Licking and sucking the frenulum and the frenar band is another move that heightens the intensity of his sensations, and will create an orgasmic state very quickly.

If you follow the ridge of the corona around to the underside of the penis (in most positions, this should be the side facing you), you'll notice a point where the two ends of the corona come together. If your partner is uncircumcised, this will also be the place where the foreskin is attached, making it a junction of extraordinary pleasure. Frequently referred to as the “sweet spot,” this tiny area is easily the most sensitive one on the entire male body, the closest a man will ever get to the compacted sensitivity of a clitoris. The location can vary from just below the meatus to the circumcision scar.

On uncircumcised men, the frenar band essentially consists of a series of ridges, and sensations from these structures during arousal are thought to be the primary trigger of orgasm in the adult male (while Sports Illustrated's swimsuit issue is perhaps the primary orgasmic trigger of the adolescent male). These ridges are loaded with Meissner's corpuscles, and thus respond very readily to pressure, loading his entire lower body with rippling sensations of driving, building, and even excruciating pleasure. Handle with care, because once you start messing around with the frenar band, your baby's gonna blow. (For more information on the exact location of the frenar band, turn to Chapter 11.)

Circumcision's Circumstances

All circumcised men have a scar on the shaft of the penis. Its location varies—sometimes it is closer to the head, while other times it appears further down the shaft. Make sure to identify the location of this scar and to lightly test a caress there before you begin performing oral sex. In some men, the scar becomes very tender and even painful to the touch. If your partner has a loss of feeling due to circumcision, supplement your oral sex by stimulating other sensitive areas.

The Uncircumcised Penis

Them That's Got: The Uncircumcised Penis

An uncircumcised partner has the advantage of several additional (and extremely sensitive) parts to play with. They are:

• The outer foreskin layer, a continuation of the skin of the shaft of the penis.

• The inner foreskin layer, which is not really “skin,” but mucocutaneous tissue of a unique type found nowhere