Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [33]
• The frenar band is the interface (join) between the outer and inner foreskin layers. When the penis is not erect, it tightens to narrow the foreskin opening. During erection, the frenar band forms a ridge that goes all the way around, about halfway down the shaft.
The Friendly Foreskin
The foreskin is particularly helpful during early stages of arousal, as stimulating it helps to trigger an erection. Chock-full of nerve receptors easily stimulated by stretching, and by being rubbed over the surface of the glans, the foreskin can make pleasure ricochet through your lover's body. A unique and fine piece of bodywork, the foreskin contains special sensory receptors called Meissner's corpuscles, which scientists believe are specially designed to provide pleasure. Don't worry about pronouncing it; just use them for all they're worth.
Testy Testicles
The testicles are sensitive, temperamental creatures. Hanging softly and quietly beneath the shaft, you wouldn't spot them as troublemakers right away. But grabbing them or handling them at all roughly creates a kind of agony the “second sex” may never know.
Running your fingers very lightly on the undersides of the testicles while you fellate your partner—and using your fingertips, not your nails—may add an exciting lift to his orgasm, or it may detract from the experience. It all depends on his unique makeup. On this count, it's best to follow your partner completely. After all, who could be a better guide to handling the family jewels than someone who's been polishing them all his life?
Lightly stimulating the testicles after the erection is launched, but well before ejaculation, is a great way to find out where the testicles register on your man's pleasure/pain scale. If gently stroking them with your fingers elicits a soft moan, obviously you're in the clear. But if he gets quiet and a little stiff, as if trying to determine exactly how much you're going to insist on touching him there, leave those grouchy gonads behind and don't turn back.
If you find out that he's a DSMT (Don't Stroke My Testicles), feel free to try the perineum behind the testicles. This area, described below, is equally responsive to light caresses but is, generally speaking, much more easygoing.
“Sucking the tea bag” is when a partner very delicately takes one or both of the testicles wholly into their mouth. Humming while you have them in can produce a surprisingly pleasant sensation, as can a small chip of ice or mouthful of warm water introduced just before the “tea bags.” For more information on this technique, turn to Chapter 14.
What Up, G?
The prostate, which is sometimes called the “male G-spot,” unleashes wildly erotic possibilities and orgasms unsurpassed if you're willing to go on a little dig. About the size of a condom, the prostate is located about three inches into the anal canal toward the penis. When he's aroused, this point will swell and become firm, and may be easier to locate. This area is directly connected to erectile impulses, making it a great place to get started, too.
Finding the Male G-spot
Another important G-location is the “prostate point,” which can be reached by pressing a finger one-third of the way from the anus toward the testicles, on the perineum. This point can provide excellent heightened sensations for those who are feeling a little timid about anal insertion.
To reach the “promised land,” slowly (at a snail's pace) insert a warm, well-lubed finger (or sex toy) into his anus while you're fellating him. Give him a moment to adjust, and once you're in to the second knuckle, ever so gently begin to make a repeated “come hither” motion with your finger. This movement will make the tip of your finger tap his G-spot. This is his magic lantern, so rub yourself silly.
This may produce an explosive orgasm on contact, so be prepared. If it produces no response, start wider and move in a circle until you hit the prostate. The first third of the skin leading from the rectum to the prostate is the most sensitive area. Having his prostate stimulated