Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [34]
The Miracles of Middle Earth
Behind the balls and between the thighs is a stretch of skin that is a fantastic gift to everyone involved. Responsive to stimulation, but never hypersensitive like the glans or testicles, this area is technically called the perineum, but deserves some finer name. It is the BJ giver's ace in the hole.
Beneath the skin of the perenium is where the bulb of the penis (its “root”) is located, and when the penis becomes erect this area also hardens. No matter what stage of the pleasure cycle you've reached, stroking and rubbing this area will probably make it better. Many men find it particularly pleasurable to have this area lightly stroked with a back-to-front motion (with the finger pads or the tips of the nails) that also pulls the balls ever so slightly forward while being fellated.
Stroking the Perineum
In the other direction, the prostate point is also located on the perenium, about two-thirds of the way back near the outside of the anus. Remember that this is your G-spot connection, so a light massage, circular rubbing, or even simple rhythmic tapping is of particular value here.
Don't Be an Ignoranus
An area of stimulation for many men—though not all—is the anus. Some men will lose their load immediately when you lightly blow on or caress the anus during oral sex; others are less responsive or have difficulty receiving pleasure in a “taboo” spot. If you want to do more than lightly blow and tickle, it's very easy to use a dental dam or cut open a condom (unroll and cut up one side, removing the curved tip to create a flat, large square) to make oral stimulation of the anus safer. Especially if you don't know your partner very well, make sure that you take some sort of precaution, because hepatitis A and E can be transmitted through anal contact.
If your man doesn't want the full insertion of a G-spot search, but is open to something a little less intense, barely entering this tight sphincter with your tongue (through a dam) or well-lubed fingertip can create fantastic sensations, and will heighten his orgasms considerably. However, rimming isn't usually enough on its own to bring a man to a full, satisfying climax.
OTHER EROGENOUS ZONES
Whenever possible, include nearby—and not so nearby—body parts in your oral sex. Limiting oral sex to genitalia is like tethering a stallion. You want your man to have all-over orgasms that encompass him entirely and send waves of pleasure rolling through his entire body. This cannot be achieved by isolating the genitals. Your stimulation has to be multifarious, diffuse. In a word, get those damn hands out there! Pinch and play, stroke and tickle, rub and caress the orgasm into every part of his body.
Nipples
Many men are extremely sensitive to the licking, caressing, sucking, and pinching of their nipples—even if some of them aren't yet even aware of it. One time, I went a little wild on a new partner's nipple, and he climaxed simply from surprise and excitement. Don't forget that the nipples are sitting there packed with nerve endings, and they love to be played with. Also, many men like to have their nipples pinched or pulled in a way that would be painful to a woman. Don't let your own sensitive breasts stop you from clamping on.
All-over Erogenous Zones
All-over Erogenous Zones
Ears
The ears are nerve hothouses. You can lick them, suck them, stroke them, and lovingly nibble or lightly bite them. The only ear rule is to avoid breathing too hard into the ear canal. You want to express your enthusiasm, but making noises like a huffing Doberman isn't the best way to do it.
The Butt
The cheeks of the butt on both men and women have an automatic sexual response linked to them, which is strengthened by repeated pressure.
A firmly pressured butt cheek massage, or simply moving your palms over them in slow, deep circles