Blow Him Away_ How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex - Marcy Michaels [35]
Backs of the Knees
These deserve a lot more credit and attention than they usually get. An extremely sensitive area, the crevices where the skin comes together behind the knees is a great place for teasing and foreplay. Also, if your man is lying down, you can have him prop his knees up and gently tickle him with one hand behind the knees while fellating him with your mouth and the other hand. The only trick is that the skin needs to be soft and dry—so use this technique early on, before your bodies are too sleek with sweat.
The Neck
The neck is made of soft and very delicate skin that loves to be lightly stroked and kissed. Whenever you think of it, reach up there and run your fingers along the nape of his neck.
Scalp
The scalp doesn't get half the attention it deserves. Plenty of people remember that this is a sensitive spot during foreplay, when they tend to run their fingers through their guy's hair. But the scalp is sensitive all the time, not just when you happen to be close to it. In some of the positions described later in the book, you'll be close enough to your man's head to lightly stroke his hair and scalp while fellating him. Some men also like to have their hair pulled (not hard enough to pull it out, but enough to create tension in the follicle) during orgasm. Is your man one of these? He may not know himself, so experiment with a few light tugs.
Armpits
Yes, they're stinky. But if you're willing to embrace the scent of manliness, armpits are jam-packed with nerve endings and tremendously responsive to stimulation. The very spot where you instinctively grabbed to tickle as a kid is the same place where thousands of nerve endings continue to hide out as an adult. The skin surrounding the armpits is delectably light and soft—explore it with your hands, fingers, tongue, and whatever else you can think of. Feather dusters (clean ones!), an individual feather, or an ice cube will work particularly well here. During oral sex, a couple of fingernails run from just below the belly button to the soft side of the upper torso and back again creates a cascade of sensations that will send some chills down his spine. It's nice to follow this move with a little nibble to the same area.
Below the Belly Button
Tickle and stroke this spot—perhaps continuing all the way down to the base of his penis—just as he's about to orgasm. Nine out of ten men will love it. One out of ten will be so busy climaxing that they won't seem to notice, but the added sensation will heighten their experience nonetheless.
The Sacred Sacrum
The sacrum is the large heavy bone at the base of the spine, roughly triangular in shape. I could write an ode entirely dedicated to this one little spot. But instead, I'll just tell you this: light, circular motions just before orgasm are divine here. Also, in the postcoital phase, stimulation on this little patch of sensitive, flat skin can lull your man into something of a trance. Just make sure to ask him questions to which you want the answer to be yes.
Fingers and Toes
Some people go wild for having their fingers or toes sucked, and it makes a great prelude to oral sex. Just remember that the skin between the fingers or toes is the most sensitive, and also be sure to play with the tips. For an extra erotic touch, hold your face right up to your partner's and make eye contact while you take their fingers into your warm, wet mouth. They'll figure out what's in store pretty quickly.
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Understanding Your Man:
Using His Fantasies to Your Advantage
WHEN MAKING LOVE to a man, it can be important to keep some of the fundamental attributes of masculine psychology in mind. According to the stereotype, women are more likely to get turned off by an emotional failing than a slight physical flaw, while men tend to narrow their focus to the physical