Vixen Manual - Karrine Steffans [59]
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Vixen Tip
Massages are fun. Pouring hot wax on your man is fun. Combining the two is exhilarating! But actual wax can be dangerous and it can’t be massaged into the skin. Solution? One hundred percent soy candles! The secret of soy is that it is extremely moisturizing to the skin, burns warm (not hot) to the touch, and with the right fragrance you have an erotic night on your hands. Enjoy!
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As a woman, you should always be concerned with scents. Everything around you should always smell good. Human beings are highly attuned to and affected by odors. Men in particular, when falling for a woman, are very impacted by her scent and the smell of her environment. Every room in your home can benefit from the aroma of a scented candle or incense, especially bathrooms. Your bedroom linens should have that straight-out-of-the-dryer smell when you’re expecting company. Most important, you should always smell nice. From your hair to your ankles, there are countless places on the body that wouldn’t suffer from the application of a little body spray or a dab of perfume. Your man will take notice and his senses will be further titillated.
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Vixen Say What?
Foreplay begins way before you take your clothes off and, many times, before you have even met.
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Vixen Tip
After an oily massage, the perfect end to an evening would be a hot bath. Given you have a spacious, presentable tub, a hot bath with the appropriate accoutrements can further relax him, maybe even putting him in the mood for love. More than anything, however, it demonstrates your ability to nurture while presenting your sexy, alluring side. Bath salts and oils, loofahs and scrubs, all of these should be used to heighten the experience. Fill your tub with what you’ll need to get clean while pampering one another. The mood in the bathroom should mirror that of dinner and the bedroom, with the soft music and lowered lighting or candlelight.
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Whether using your bed for simply cuddling and sleeping or for lovemaking, it is imperative that your bed is a place where both you and he want to be. This is fairly easy and very inexpensive. You can give your bed the look and feel of luxury and elegance for very little money, making it a place your man wouldn’t mind spending all his time on a lazy Sunday afternoon. You may think men don’t particularly care about these sorts of girly things, but you would be very wrong. Though a single man may not be so dainty and detail-oriented in his life and home, he will love and appreciate it in yours. The way you keep up your home and yourself will be key in your attempts to attract him, both initially and over time.
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Vixen Tip
Try a bath made of milk. Using powdered milk will be cheaper but just as effective. For dramatic effect, scatter red rose petals on top of this white bath and indulge.
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Vixen Tip
Spray freshly washed sheets with a dab of fabric softener and water or linen spray, which can be found at any body, bed, or bath store. My favorite line of linen sprays is the one by Bath and Body Works, with aromatherapy scents such as Eucalyptus Spearmint. Crisp, white linens are alluring, more so than colorful, large patterns. Try your best to stay away from floral prints when you’re spending time in bed with your man. Though it may only be a subconscious notion, it may be tough for a man to lay naked among a field of daisies. White sheets are simple and cater to both of you. You should have a clean sheet set with at least two pillows for each of you, and a light blanket under a heavier down comforter covered by a duvet, all white. I recommend duvet covers versus owning several comforters, which only