Vixen Manual - Karrine Steffans [60]
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Men tend to have fantasies that the average woman thinks she cannot live up to; nothing could be further from the truth. If the local gentlemen’s club intrigues your man, then don’t try to stop him from going. Go with him! During those times when you wish he would just stay home with you instead of chasing his fantasy, turn things around. Become his fantasy. Bring the gentlemen’s club to him. Romantic music and lighting will set the mood. After a trip to the lingerie or costume store, you’ll have everything you need to become his private dancer. We all know about Victoria’s Secret, and although it is an outstanding source for everything lingerie, sometimes a man wants to see something a little more risqué. If you don’t know of any place in your area that sells fantasy wear, call the local gentlemen’s club—disguise your voice and block your phone number, if you’re uncomfortable about calling—and ask someone there where you would go to get costumes if you were a dancer. I’m sure you’ll find someone eager to provide that information. As you prepare to become your man’s fantasy, don’t forget to put on your body scents. It never hurts to use cocoa butter instead of regular lotion. Cocoa butter gives off a soft, sensual scent and complements most perfumes nicely. Make sure you’ve had a recent pedicure and manicure, and that your hair is freshly done and smells clean. Imagine him noticing a chipped or broken nail in the midst of your carefully orchestrated affair. Nothing should distract him from you. Everything should be perfection. That’s what fantasy is all about!
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Vixen Tip
You don’t have to be a professional dancer to be enticing to your man. Just be yourself and do the things you know he likes.
1. Sit him on the sofa and make full contact with his body.
2. Straddle him face-to-face.
3. Begin by nibbling on his ear and neck.
4. Whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you love him and missed him while he was away, or how turned on you are just by the sight of him.
5. Place his face between your breasts and manipulate your nipples in, out, and around his lips.
6. Continuously gyrate, slowly and gently grinding your body against his.
7. Slowly and carefully switch positions, sitting on him with your back to him.
8. Place your feet on the floor between his legs.
9. Slowly stand while simultaneously pulling off your bottoms.
10. Tease him with your bottoms, pulling them up and down, on and off, while moving your body like a snake to the music.
11. When you have removed your bottoms, sit on his lap with your back to him and bring your legs up onto the sofa to straddle him.
12. Once you are propped up on your knees, bend down and touch the floor with your hands. This will place your bottom half directly in his face.
13. Slide onto the floor, carefully, slowly.
14. Lie on your side, raise one leg and bend the other inward.
15. Showcase your extended leg and your perineum.
16. Rock back and forth on your bottom. Switch legs and repeat.
17. Get creative, have a good time, and visit the gentlemen’s club once in a while, either with your mate or with girlfriends, just to pick up some pointers. No doubt about it, these few tips will lead to more excitement in your relationship. And, lucky for you, there are more tips and diagrams ahead. Read on!
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These are tricks out of my own bag, tried-and-true methods that work every single time. Though I have lived the kind of life most people would dare to judge, there is a lot I have learned that has been useful in many aspects of my life, even as I evolve. Look at the span of my life thus far, from being an exotic dancer at the age of sixteen, to being a wife at seventeen, a mother at nineteen, a divorcee at twenty, a Video Vixen at twenty-one, and realizing my dream, at twenty-five, of becoming a New York Times best-selling author. What a transformation! What a long and winding road! Along the way, I’ve learned a lot about