Vixen Manual - Karrine Steffans [66]
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Vixen Tip
Keep a secret stash of lingerie and add to it often. He’ll be wowed by your devotion to pleasing him, as well as your imagination and gusto. I have found that thigh-high boots with five-inch heels and fishnet thigh-high stockings work well. They’re impossible to walk in, but I have a feeling you won’t be doing much walking! There are countless types of outfits to choose from—a bustier; waist cinchers; thongs; Brazilian-cut bottoms with side ties. The list goes on. Then there are costumes that represent a certain fantasy. My favorite costume company is Trashy Lingerie, a Los Angeles landmark and the best designers of imagination-charged intimate apparel. Visit them at www.Trashy.com and fulfill your fantasy tonight!
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We’re just getting started. Now, take the last two tips, combine them and apply them to the following.
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Vixen Tip
Enjoy being submissive in the missionary position, but revel being in the power position as well. She will handle him with both delicate care and domineering strength. When in the power position, which is on top of him, face-to-face:
Place your hands around his neck gently, and, ever so slowly, apply pressure.
Caress his hair, then begin to tug at its roots.
Speak into his ear, saying all the things he needs to hear. Coax him on, even tear him down to build him back up. “Is that all? Is that it? Give me more! Do it better than that! Yeah. That’s it. Like that…”
Take the time to understand the way his body works, every muscle, small and large.
Place your hands on his chest for support.
Ride him up and down, front to back, and side to side.
Shift from sitting on your knees to straddling while on your feet.
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Vixen Tip
FOR THE ADVANCED COUPLE
Without disconnecting, turn your body around and ride him backward.
Spread his legs and run your hands up his thigh while riding.
Gently cuff his scrotum.
Slowly and carefully, run your fingers across his “no fly zone,” the perineum between his scrotum and rectum.
If he’s adventurous enough, visit his rectum…maybe even with a probe!
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Many couples suffer a disconnect when it comes to porn. Usually, it’s the man who wants to watch, which may trigger the woman in his life to feel a bit insecure, as if she is not adequate enough. Perhaps, she surmises, he’d prefer to be with someone who looks and performs like the women on-screen. While that may be true—there are many men who get caught up in an unrealistic ideal—it doesn’t matter. He’s with you, and if you know how, you can meet that ideal for him…rather, alter it so that you become the ideal.
Take the initiative to be more present in your love life. Investigate what these women on-screen are doing. If you’re not comfortable watching porn with him, watch it alone. Study, study, study. Dare to take on the things you feel comfortable with. As you grow bolder, watch porn with him, paying careful attention to the parts he responds to. Emulate those acts, if you’re physically able and feel so inspired. Instead of shunning the women in pornography, you might want to pay attention. You’ll expand your horizons and, soon enough, he won’t need as much porn because he’ll be busy watching you!
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Vixen Tip
If you are having a difficult time participating with your man while he’s watching porn, take a different approach to the situation. Set up your own video recorder and make a date with your man to tape your own sexual encounter! Bring your best outfits and stilettos to the party. Bring toys and all the tricks in your bag. Be adventurous and try new things. Make up things as you go along! Tape this session and every one after that and watch them together later. Turn your